So i went out with this boy for a year. i found out he was cheating on me with this other girl so i broke it off with him. He ended up going out with this girl (the one he cheated on me). two weeks after going out with this girl she broke up with him. Now he wants so badly to go back out with me but i am scared that he will do the same thing. what should i do? go back out with him or just say no?
2007-09-11 08:48:04 · 25 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So no honey. Once a cheat, always a cheat... You deserve better.
2007-09-11 08:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by lizsmith82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this "can I ever trust him again?" If the answer if no, then don't do it. Tell him to leave you alone.
If you really love him and you think you could totally forgive him (there is no room in a relationship for mistrust), then don't date him yet. See him socially with other people around, but never alone. Let it go on for 6 months (no dating, no sex). If he is really serious about you he will be true to you for that long. If he isn't serious, he'll go out and find someone else. Make him prove to you that you are number 1 in his life and he'll do anything to stay with you. If he loves you he'll prove it. Good luck
2007-09-11 16:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you not do it but it seems like your iffy about it meaning there is a slight chance that you will get back with him because you're not mad enough at him. So if that side of you takes over make it your business to talk to other guys and treat him like crap till you feel better but be careful not to fall again because it will hurt worse the next time around and you will once again feel and be defeated.
2007-09-11 15:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had his chance to be true and loyal - HE CHOSE NOT TO BE!!! Don't waste your time! He only wants you back to stroke his own ego - I mean come on the girl he cheated with just dumped him on his A**! Now he wants you to pick him up and be nice to him! HA - Screw him - Tell him "Karma is a BI*CH!" There are guys out there who won't cheat - you deserve better!
2007-09-11 15:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Big Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok do you want revenge, or do you want to know what to do?
Revenge: make him suffer! lol, just stread rumors, gossip, stuff like that.
What to do: Ok I say once a cheater always a cheater but, hey. I would give him a second chance, make the conciquences clear if you catch him cheating again(never trust his word again).
2007-09-11 15:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should just move on, you don't deserve a guy that lie and cheats on you even you guys have been with each other for over a yr!! Teach him a lesson and just look for somone better. Good luck.
2007-09-11 15:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by M@caroni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close your eyes, clear all of your thoughts, and ask yourself that same question. Whatever comes to mind first (and make sure your honest about what really comes first) is what you should do. Either way it will be hard, and it will hurt. But the only one that can decide what to do is you! Good Luck!
2007-09-11 15:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge? hmmm, u don't wanna know what i would do... i'm really spiteful. But ummm yea, he doesn't know what he wants so just keep believing he'd do it again and write him off as a lose. "You win some you lose some" Lauryn Hill and that's ok sometimes... not everyone is a winner. Good luck!
2007-09-11 15:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Benny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will probably get the same thing you got before. He'll probably cheat on you again.
2007-09-11 15:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you...how many times do you need to put yourself through that situation? Pass on him this time...he's already proven the type of person he is.
2007-09-11 15:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋