I hear he likes me and wants to ask me out . He pulled my shirt and saw my bra and i pulled it back up and got red cause I was embarresed .I am not like really chesty and I am not flat either . (I am 34B btw) . My "friend" started calling me insecure . I know he is a virgin . He always flirts with me . I am a freshman in highschool. I don't want to flash him . But I know he wants to ask me out is that so he can get in my pants or is it because he really likes me . (He didn't pull my shirt that low on purpose i just backed away it went farther down and he walked a little when i got it back up)
2007-09-11 11:33:59 · 15 answers · asked by curious.asker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea we were waiting for the bus to come and we were messing around and then randomly he pulled my shirt . But he looked like he didn't mean to make it go that low cause he moved away and walked a little then like 30sec he came back and wouldn't talk to me for like 5 min and on the bus he didn't save a seat for me like he usually does.
2007-09-11 11:40:49 · update #1
YssiK- I didn't know he was going to do that . The 3 f use were standing in a circle with only like 3 inches apart talking then out of no where he grapped my shirt then walked away as I explained .
2007-09-11 11:44:20 · update #2
I am not a sl*ut . I do not want him in my pants . I don't want to flash him . I am only 14 I do not want to have sex . And have a risk of getting pregnant . Just to clear that up .
2007-09-11 11:46:48 · update #3
I hate how everyone is being mean to you .
You are just a girl who just started high school everything is new. How old is this boy? same age as you i suppose . Trust me he would have done much worse if he wanted to get in your pants . And I like how you added the that you do not want to flash him and you are not gonna let him get in your pants.
2007-09-11 11:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by lalala :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was an adult man who did this to adult woman in the street he would be in jail right now..if he was an adult who did this in the workplace he would fired and the owner of the establishment can be sued..why is it okay for a kid to do it to another kid when it is not cool for an adult to do it to another adult?
What he did was not only uncool but it is considered sexual assault for which he could get in a lot of trouble for..Don't make him think that the problem is with you...The problem is with him and his lack of respect for you as a woman / girl..Let him know that if he does it again you will tell an adult and watch him back off..he clearly has no respect for you and assumes you are a dumb slut , which I am sure you are not..just a bit naive...
2007-09-15 05:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by eric r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the law enforcement officers, NOW, in case you haven't any longer already. What he requested of you is criminal, and not the action of a father to his newborn. This appears like a case wherein the choose arises to invite to be far flung from the residing house, for you risk-free practices.
2016-12-16 17:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by tedesco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hear he "likes" you, then its obvious that he is asking you out because he likes you, not because he wants in your pants. It is REALLY obvious when a guy just wants in your pants. And what he has done, doesn't seem that way.
2007-09-11 11:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by Southern Comfort 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he touched your shirt, for what reason?
he wants in your pants, or at least your head in his lap
EDIT: ok, be wary of what could happen. It may have been an accident, but be very cautious to begin with. Try and pretend that nothing happened and if he mentions it, just say to him "I know you didn't mean it"
2007-09-11 11:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps doing this, then answer is quite obvious.This guy is a sick disgusting pervert. He only wants to get in your pants.
2007-09-11 12:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by jpmarin5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you won't to do. Period.
If he wants to ask you out, he will. If you want to go, go. If you don't want to go, don't go.
It's your life, if you feel he only wants in your pants and you don't want him there the answer is easy. Keep them zipped up and him out.
2007-09-11 11:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by tetlitea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to grow the hell up. he's an immature child, and you are too young to flash anyone. just ignore him. chances are, with that behavior, he'll stay a virgin.
2007-09-11 11:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont if u dont want too and stand your ground if you dont want too. who cares if he calls u stuff if u do that it could lead to anything else and is a risk of it getting in future relationships/friendships
2007-09-11 11:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by Brad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys (especially Americans) have quite the obsession with female breasts...
...any opportunity to see 'em is a good thing to them and you're offering him an opportunity to see yours. (You're at least considering it)
... if it's not a big deal to you - g'head and give him a thrill.
2007-09-11 11:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋