Family & Relationships - 11 September 2007

2007-09-11 14:38:57 · 23 answers · asked by drew 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend took a shower together, she gave me a hand job and we were sitting on our butts, the water was running but not that hot. she covered my thing with her hand after i ejaculated and i dont know if water with semen coulda went into her vagina. she was wearing undies though if that helps. then she took em off, and i did her, and i ejaculated again behind her. i'm not sure if shes pregnant could she be?
scared!

2007-09-11 14:35:43 · 13 answers · asked by dude g 1 in Singles & Dating

People, especially women are always saying I'm a sweet guy. I don't do anything extraordinary and I do have my bad days. I was raised to have manners by my parents and what I do is no big deal i.e. comliments, opening doors, offering my seat to ladies, etc. But somehow deep inside I don't want to be thought of just as that. There is more to me and people think I'm always nice all of the time. It sounds funny but it' a little annoying. Any comments? thanks

2007-09-11 14:34:44 · 1 answers · asked by Nash M 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf (of 2 years) and I broke up in July. He told me when I was 6 1/2 mos preggo that he wasn't ready and stormed out when I wouldn't "take care" of the situation. He is a selfish, immature, abusive, lying sob and yes, I should have dumped him a long time ago, but stupid me let my feelings get in the way. He has not tried to contact me for well over a month. I absolutely hate him for abandoning me, when he wanted this baby for a long time. I have no family here, but great friend support, great job, I'm 34 healthy and independent. I'm also going to a therapist b/c he messed me up bad. I've thought about telling him when our son is born and then I'm like "no way". I don't even know if I want to waste my time w/child support as he never paid for anything when we were together. It's hard for me to do everything on my own, but I'm getting thru this. As much as I loved him, I will never forget or forgive him. I thought about calling his family after the birth b/c they don't know either.

2007-09-11 14:34:13 · 59 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4 in Marriage & Divorce

That girly sigh, that girls makes, when they have butterflys, or are flattered, or whatever?
Like, they take a deep breath, then they exhale kinda high pitched?
I've always wondered. :)

2007-09-11 14:33:54 · 14 answers · asked by xcarcrash.hearts 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy a few weeks ago and we had a really good time. I spoke with him this week and said I would really like to go out with him again, and he said sure, just to let him know when. We have been flirting with eachother now for 2 years and nothing has really ever happend with us yet. Our last date we just gave eachother a big hug goodbye. Do you think he really does want to see me again and will something happend?

2007-09-11 14:32:56 · 7 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 14:31:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Before I thought about her all the time and now it's like somewhat. the girl i like/liked has gone to a diff school and i recently added her on facebook cause b4 i was to afraid to add her. After i sent her a message on facebook and for some reason i kept checking it like evry 10 min. I think i still i like her but i'm not sure...

just so you know I also guarantee you that she doesn't like me

2007-09-11 14:31:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you're 26.

2007-09-11 14:30:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 14:28:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 14:24:01 · 3 answers · asked by Christine C 1 in Singles & Dating

is it just me or is it that no guy at school even knows i exist unless i talk to him or another girl makes him talk to me. i don't know what is wrong with me that guys don't like me but i don't know what to do. i'm a pretty,smart girl who enjoys talking and working with others. i fear that the one time my temper broke out a few years ago may have stopped guys from even wanting to talk to me. please help me, i don't know what to do about the guys ignoreing me.

2007-09-11 14:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by crazy girl 2 in Friends

I've known this girl for about 3 years, but we haven't really talked in a while. Recently, she accidentally called me and we started talking again. We talked almost daily (phone and texts) for about a week and a half and we met up twice very casually. It seemed like we showed a great interest in one another.... we talked about things that we had in common and we basically established that we had a liking for each other. Well, a few days ago we decided to go to a concert. She stayed up until 3 a.m. the previous night, so i could tell that she was tired. She seemed like she was having a great time at the concert, but when it was only halfway through she told me that she was very tired and she was wanted to go get some sleep for tailgating the next day. I walked her to her car and we said a pretty generic goodbye for this type of situation. Well we were supposed to meet up the next day... but that never happened. It has now been 4 days and she is not answering my calls.

2007-09-11 14:22:04 · 11 answers · asked by mike 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a volatile family...as in explosive. My deadbeat dad (who took a sabbatical from life, dumped me and my mom, and became a long-haul trucker {neither here nor there} ) recently has reentered my life. I'm getting married in the next few years (its complicated by my hubby-to-be being in the Army) and while i will invite him to my wedding Mark (deadbeat) will have no part in it. My problem is I can foresee conflict and lots of it. Either J (fiance) is going to confront Mark about the way that he has treated me for the whole of my life or Mark is going to pitch a hissy fit because all he can do is sit and watch while another man takes his place in all the fatherly wedding day duties. And then there's the possibility that my dad and Mark will have their own cussing match. So how can I do the right thing by inviting him and not have him ruin my wedding day?

2007-09-11 14:20:56 · 22 answers · asked by TheBlackRose 2 in Weddings

She left me for some other guy after four years! What can I do to get over it, or at least stop the pain?

2007-09-11 14:15:08 · 15 answers · asked by Brian V 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 14:13:36 · 46 answers · asked by rebecca m 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I were making plans for our wedding when we found out we were pregnant ... so now, with the pregnancy 17 weeks along, we have decided to post pone the wedding because we dont want people to think we got married because of the baby. Would anyone else postpone the wedding because of their pregnancy, or would you just go ahead with it? I cant help but feel this might be a little selfish somehow.

2007-09-11 14:13:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

That's right, we at the station are tired of you "do you think he likes me", "am I pretty", "can you solve this formula" stuff.

We know your are junior, but help US for ONCE.

Solve the damn crime, ok?

2007-09-11 14:09:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 14:04:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know the kind of kid who argues back with the parent and hits the parent and falls out all over the floor. what do you think the solution is to this problem?

2007-09-11 14:04:28 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have loved this guy for a year, i can and have told him everything. i love him to death, but hem lives in washington, we have phone sex on ocation, but we keep it to a.. casual, non-atatched realationship.
does phone sex count as cheating?

i started going out with this guy and he found out that i had phone sex with the guy from washington and nw hes all angery and doent want to talk to me. i broke up with him today and thats when he started to really care about me talking to the guy in washington. i dojnt know what to do.

i told him that i want to stay friends but hes acting like i riped out his heart and ate it. we only went out for a week!!!!

2007-09-11 14:04:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do soem girls say sex kinda hurts but it hurts good liek it hurts but feels good at the same tyme I dont get it lol ..If something hurts how can it feel good lol ..

2007-09-11 14:00:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a freshman and there is this junior that I think is REALLY HOT!!! I cannot stop thinking about him........i always talk about him and whenever I walk pass him i always get this funny feeling in my stomach and whenever I get close to him I cannot stop smiling! But, I have never had a conversation or talked to him before so i barely know what his personality is like (people say he is REALLY nice). Do I like this person or what??? My friends say that I can't like him because i have never really talked to him b4 but I cannot stop thinking about him. I think there are other people in the school that are hot too, but for some reason I cannot stop talking and thinking about this particular person....why is that?? What is it???

P.S. All of my friends say that I should go up and talk to him....but how??? I don't have him in ANY of my classes because he is a junior and I am a freshmen. The only time I see him is through the hallways, at lunch, and after school sometimes.

2007-09-11 13:59:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ack, I am being pecked to death. Please God, reverse the Amazon curse.

2007-09-11 13:58:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Preferably live ones. Its also important that they have brainwaves. Im not into them veggies, ya know. Good websites will help too.

2007-09-11 13:58:10 · 4 answers · asked by Brian V 5 in Singles & Dating

Say my Mom died. My Father is nowhere to be found. I'm 19 and my little brother is 7. If my Mom dies would I be responsible to take care of my brother? How does that work?

2007-09-11 13:53:33 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 30 and still struggle with this one.

2007-09-11 13:51:27 · 25 answers · asked by what's the point 4 in Family

My x-bf is asking me to get back together with him. Knowing he has told me he doesn't really like being with me, that he also wants to be with other women, and still wants but he feels he SHOULD be with me, cause 'i'm his', kind of like with the dog he has, it isn't at all what he would want in a dog, but it's his dog. I tell him i can't do that because i don't want to be a nuisance for anybody, much less my partner. And it does show that he's not comfortable with me in lots of things. This is making me miserable, i have told him that.
Now he's calling me saying, c'mon, stop being such a child, get back together with me already. Just say yes, be good, and voila. But the problem is not me being 'bad'... what should i do? say to him? What does it take to make him understand that if he wants to be with me he should want it all the time? That it's unfair to ask me to be with him while offering saying/acting otherwise as soon as he feels like it?

2007-09-11 13:49:58 · 2 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

I allowed my son to go with his father for Christmas and when my son came back he told me that Santa Clause hadn't left any presents for him. My son was 4 at the time. I have another son who also goes with his dad and his family and he came back with gifts. When I asked my son's father why he did this to him he said it was to hurt me because I wouldn't give him any money back from the child support I get. Earlier that month he had been complaining to me about how he didnt have any money for Christmas. How broke he was but when I dropped my son off I saw the Christmas tree and all the decorations at his house. My son came back home excited from the visits because he said Santa had been to his daddy's house because he saw a lot of gifts. Earlier I had commented to his father about a drumset my son wanted and he buys a drumset for his other son. My son had nothing. I played it off to my son like it was no big deal. His father later said that I told him not to get him anything.

2007-09-11 13:46:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why would a guy act all lovey dovey on a girl and ask her out on a second date if he's just going to stand her up and lie to her the next day? I met a guy at work who was 23(he's 24 now) and i'm 18. we started talking and he asked me for my phone number, so i gave it to him. he called me a couple times and we went out on a date one night. the next week he asked me if i wanted to go out the next night and i said yes. he hugged me every time he saw me and was asking guys if they had seen "his girl" (talking about me). the next night he never called me, when we were supposed to go out at 9 after he got off work. he left me a message that night saying that he didn't get off until 11 and he would try and call me later. he lied about when he got off work, b/c he did get off at 9 that night and he lied about when he left the voicemail. i don't understand how a guy could all of a sudden change his mind about me. he hasn't called me back since that voicemail either. what do u think?

2007-09-11 13:42:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating