i have loved this guy for a year, i can and have told him everything. i love him to death, but hem lives in washington, we have phone sex on ocation, but we keep it to a.. casual, non-atatched realationship.
does phone sex count as cheating?
i started going out with this guy and he found out that i had phone sex with the guy from washington and nw hes all angery and doent want to talk to me. i broke up with him today and thats when he started to really care about me talking to the guy in washington. i dojnt know what to do.
i told him that i want to stay friends but hes acting like i riped out his heart and ate it. we only went out for a week!!!!
2007-09-11 14:04:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it does because your heart tells you it already, you aren't excited or having much fun with your own guy. Also to quote the bible out there, if you look upon a guy with lust or have lust for another man, its already consider cheating. Don't get me wrong, I'm not christian.
2007-09-11 14:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does!!! You are sharing a sexual experience - the only difference is that the other person is not PHYSICALLY there to give you pleasure (you have to take care of that part yourself). The entire point of phone sex (or cyber sex) is to get each other REALLY turned on, and then to "pleasure" yourselves at the same time (and share the sounds, etc. that come with THAT - or descriptions if cybering) ;);););)
2007-09-11 14:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah its cheating.. If I was dating a girl that did that of course I would kick her to the curb. Phone sex is beyond friendly flirting.. And you think he is overreacting? In his eyes you doing something like that in the short time you are dating tells what kind of person you are in the relationship field. He is smart to toss you out. It will save a lot of heart aches for him in the future.
2007-09-11 14:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
he has every right to be mad at u for having a phone sex with someoine u doing even know or have met.. and yes its another way of cheating... now that u've already broke up.. now u can enjoy and continue to enjoy ur phone sex with this guy in washington...
2007-09-11 14:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by skeptic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know I would be hurt, even if it was only a week. For future reference, phone sex is absolutely cheating.
2007-09-11 14:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok frist no it doesn't count. i still flirt with my ex and i mean realy flirting about how much we wish to be togther and what would happen if we were. but he's off at uni and i'm stuck here for anouther two years. so i've goten anouther bf. he knows i have guys from my past and also knows they flirt with me and i flirt with them. he dosen't knwo the extent of the flirting but he's fine with it. trust is a big thing. u were right to dump him cause that guy didn't trust u. if he did he would realize that the guy is far away so its just a bit of fun.
2007-09-11 14:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't consider phone sex as cheating its no different than porn its only a problem if you have a problem with it if it makes you feel uncomfortable you will never like it
2007-09-11 14:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by meka33311 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he must have really liked you alot or looked very forward with ur relationship but then this happens and he is hurt. if u date a guy never flirt with anybody no matter who it is because you can break his pride
2007-09-11 14:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Cero 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So wait, the two relationships are the two over the telephone? have you ever met the two of those adult males? If no longer, i does no longer evaluate it dishonest. fairly via fact no longer something is respected. yet do no longer take what i'm asserting the incorrect way. in case you have been in a actual relationship with a guy and observed him commonplace and have been formally his lady pal, then rotated and had telephone intercourse with somebody else, it fairly is in all danger considered dishonest via maximum individuals, fairly the guy you're in a relationship with. purely think of appropriate to the way you could sense if the area have been reversed.
2016-10-04 10:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so i want to meet someone to have phone sex with
2007-09-11 14:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋