2007-09-11 14:13:36 · 46 answers · asked by rebecca m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no but it does gross some people out with all the blood and stuff
2007-09-11 14:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm curious just how he thinks it would harm him.
The only problem I can think of with sex during menstruation is that it's more messy than usual. Period. (Pardon the pun.)
Maybe fear of blood-borne disease? Should be using condoms anyway, if disease is a concern -- and good idea for birth control, too. And generally disease should be a concern regardless -- a lot of people have discovered they had something incurable, after their partner told them they were clean and "we don't need to use a condom".
2007-09-11 14:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by Katie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard men say that in some cases the menstrual fluid can be an irritant to the head of the penis, especially if it isn't washed away immediately. Other than that, I doubt that there is any harm that can come from it. I have had sex while menstruating, and other than it being kind of gross looking (and odoriferous) when it's over, my partner had no adverse affects.
2007-09-11 14:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm thinking illllll why you just can't wait until the right time. But I do not believe that he will be hurt it's just our body cleansing when our egg does not get fertilized. It's the lining that would have come out later as a baby. I think I explained that right. If there are any doctors out there how did I do.
2007-09-11 14:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bettina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he's not right.....you can very safely have sex while you are on your period. It is a Very personal choice, and he may just not Want to have sex with you during that time!! It can be messy and a little upsetting if he is not use to the whole situation!!
Probably best to talk to him, and remember to respect his choice...if he doesn't want to have sex with you during that time....thats fine...Im sure there are other fun things you guys could do!!!
2007-09-11 14:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will do him no harm. Can't say the same for the sheets though. Try cold salty water on them to remove the mess. Oh and he could have a shower with soap after
2007-09-11 14:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Besides the possible sloppiness it implies there is no physical danger to either of you! As a matter of fact women are more excitable during their period. If he can past the blood he may encounter and you don't mind, go ahead try it!. You might like it!
2007-09-11 14:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by SexRexRx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it will not harm him unless he is deathly allergic reaction to blood, which is unlikely since I am sure he has blood.
From personal experience, it is no big deal, but that is personal preference, he probably just thinks it is a gross idea. Talk to him about it.
2007-09-11 14:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres noway it will do any harm Ive done it more times than I can count but a lot of guys dont like sex when thats going on so maybe hes one of them and just saying that
2007-09-11 14:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hon from all the years of our marrage,, Ive never been hurt,, it is more the other way dear darling, I lost my wife to cervical cancer stage 4 and miss her dearly and They say it wasnt me but sometimes men can be the one who seeps pee or a infection so being clean is important for both sexes,, just shower before and after and remember that sex shoulld be between 2 who truly care about one another,,,
as far as your period goes,,It is safe,, hon,, no worries as long as you feel okeys.
2007-09-11 14:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it will not do him harm but it can be pretty messy though it depends on when you do it and its a huge risk of getting pregnant be safe !
2007-09-11 14:18:43 · answer #11 · answered by miimmii_llynnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋