Family & Relationships - 11 September 2007

a - successful guy .. but you really dont get along.. lots of fights or arguments.. but he very successful guy.. he can support you and family..

b - not so successful guy.. but you get along .. no fights no arguments.. but only successful enough to support himself and .. you..

2007-09-11 16:20:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know this one guy and he told me that he has expectations when he goes on dates with girls. on the first date he would like the girl to show him her breasts, on the second date he would like the girl to give him head, and then on the third date he wants her to go over to his house and its bang bang (well u know)..i told him i dont agree with this and he said that alot of girls said they dont and only a few actually carried through..which i think is laughable..what do u think of this guy..would u trust him..why or why not?

2007-09-11 16:18:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 14 and i have just gotten my heart broken by a guy i realy like and i dont know what to do...please help gurls and guys

2007-09-11 16:15:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a just started a Temporary 6 month long Software development project.
Im 30 years old and have about 160k in equity in my house and no debt so Im not sure why Im busting my butt like this to mak eeven more dough.
I guess I like the challenge while Im young and single. lol
It will pay equal to 3 years salary in just 6 months.
But I will be working insane hours.
For the next 7 weeks starting to tomorrow until Halloween I will be working 7 days a week for an average of 70 hours.
I will take either Friday or Saturday night off to just chill out and relax.
I simply dont have time for my friends and I think Im not goign to even bother dating anyoen for 7 weeks.
After the first grueling 7 weeks my work schedule will be 5 days a week - 10 hours a day and one half of 5 hours until first Day of Spring.
Sooo I still will have a hard time keeping up with my friends and also spending much time dating.
My friends are ACTUALLY annoyed that I will be going dark & incognito

2007-09-11 16:11:58 · 19 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Singles & Dating

And what do you think your s.o. would change about you? If you want to list a lot of things, what the hel%!

2007-09-11 16:11:40 · 18 answers · asked by GabbyGal 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 16:08:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago, but i'm still not over him. he's funny, smart, athletic, and shares the same values as me. we're still friends, but i want more. i dont know if he does, he's not that big into expressing his feelings. that's basically why he dumped me in an email. i dont know if i should just move on or if i should try to get him back. what do you think?

2007-09-11 16:07:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would you feel if someone close to you says I want to spend more time alone than withyou? Ive been with my bf for 3 years & Ive always felt that he was the one. But it wasnt until recently that he told me what I wrote above. I fallen in love with him and he's fallen in love with me, but what he said to me hurt me. & I dont know whether to break up with him or not. He has always beenkind to me and gentle, loyal, loving and affectionate, but he is not so romantic and I only see him once a week. I could see him more but I feel like he doesnt want to, Ill ask him if he wants to go out with me and he will usually say no, or he's busy, when i call him he's busy, so he calls me instead. I know he wouldnt cheat, i know. but he doesnt want to be with me as much as i want to be with him. When we get into arguments he treats me like a child and tells me how i should feel, and it hurts me because i know he's not listening. This guy is honest and caring, and he is very spiritual.

2007-09-11 16:05:01 · 8 answers · asked by roxanne14877 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Isn't marraige something from the 20th century.
what about trial marraiges for 5 years. the marriage license expires and can be renewed upon new vows. no more divorces.

2007-09-11 16:04:12 · 37 answers · asked by Stingray 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 16:03:13 · 18 answers · asked by cowboy_fan 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Aren't Christians supposed to be honest, so why can't I be honest about the errors in the Bible without people calling me an unbeliever. Would I be a believer if I lied and claimed the Bible contains no lies or distortions, when every Christian who is honest with himself knows they exist in fairly large numbers?

2007-09-11 16:02:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

And I've been thinking a lot about college and graduation lately, and it made me think of other future events that will most likely happen in my life (Weddings, Funerals, etc). I'm just starting to wonder if I should invite my father to these occasions. He left my mom, brother and myself when I was about three and I haven't talked to him in years, but he's still my father. He partially pays for the insurance of my brother and I, and my grandparents on his side always send us cards for birthdays and such filled with small notes saying how they miss us, so I almost feel obligated to invite him. But DAD left US, so I barely even feel like his daughter... it's a confusing situation... what do you think?

2007-09-11 16:02:43 · 13 answers · asked by caitrin2009 2 in Family

Is it because the "jerks" put off an attitude like they can take or leave the gorgeous girls, and the girls are not used to such treatment from otherwise "nice" guys?...(That seems to be the simplest response, anyway)...But what do YOU think, ladies?.......

2007-09-11 16:00:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with this girl for about 10 months now, and last night i find out that she has been lying to me about who she is and what she does for a job entirely. she is very pretty and young.compared to me that i am older and divorced. she told me she is french-japanese, and working in finance. but last night i accidently bump into her email find out that she is chinese and university student. i really loved this girl and she really loved me. even my parents really liked her. she explain the reason she lying to me is worry that her nationality and being a student wont make us a chance to be together. the love we had for each other was reality. my parents ask me to kick her out, but i dont know if i should forgive her this time?

2007-09-11 15:59:57 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 6 years. During a recent disagreement, my husband said he doesn't know for sure that he should have married me. But he says he doesn't believe in divorce. It's been a couple of weeks now, but I still can't get it off my mind that if he had it to do over again, he may not have married me. Is he just "stuck" with me then? I don't feel as attracted to him anymore as I used to be if you know what I mean. I thought about getting some counseling, but I can't afford it as I have no money. What, if anything, should I do?

2007-09-11 15:57:57 · 13 answers · asked by conni 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i really want one, but i need to first find the perfect way of asking.

2007-09-11 15:56:46 · 19 answers · asked by MCRlover♥ 1 in Friends

it seems that evertime i find one they always avoid me or act like they don't know me....
so i just don't want to go youth group anymore...
Everyone there seems to be a hypocrite...thats something i don't want God to judge me as.

2007-09-11 15:52:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this guy was good, but he is black colour, im 27 years i know the life after marriage so what i will do ,

2007-09-11 15:50:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a problem with my boyfriend always downloading and watching porn? He says it's better than cheating, that most guys do it, blah , blah, but I just don't get it.. What do you think?

2007-09-11 15:49:30 · 19 answers · asked by *Dre@* 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do alot of women think that they can ACTULLY win a fight against men PHYSICALLY( some do fluke?)?? dont they know that if a man was serious he could seriously hurt HER???

2007-09-11 15:48:57 · 18 answers · asked by Eratu 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 15:46:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean I kinda need her help in understanding what to do and she said I could tell her if we were but a couple of months ao she was like no no no. I don't know I mean people on here arent very helpful and none of my friends are really avalible right now to talk to about this kinda stuff. I mean, it could go eitehr ways as far as a conversation goes but well what do you think I should do?

2007-09-11 15:42:14 · 7 answers · asked by R ♥ I ♥ P ♥ Casey Calvert 3 in Family

she tells everyone, that she hates me because I made her dad leave. she also tells me that I am mean, and she loves her daddy more, and will I be nice to her dad so she can live with him???

2007-09-11 15:40:52 · 23 answers · asked by scared mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know wat to do..Im involved with 3 married men all under 30 years of age...they also have children..Im in love with all 3 of them and somehow I cant make a decision..I know they are married but marriage these days in 2007 is just a piece of paper...What do I need to do..do I stay with all of them or ditch all 3...please help im in a situation that cannot be erased...Im 22 years old I have my whole life ahead of me...I love all 3 of them...I want positive answers not jealousy answers...

2007-09-11 15:40:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I been seeing this girl for the last month and a half. last night I hit the jackpot with her more then once. She's a sweat girl however I DONT WANT to hurt her feelings I want to keep her on the sidelines for a while but I dont want to be to obvious doing it. I also dont want her to know what Im trying to do either. When I was first seeing her I knew 2 month earlier she had a bad break up with her boyfriend I dont want to dump her totally I dont want to screw with her head either. I just want too keep her on the shelf for a while to give me sometime to see If I still want to go with her. She's wants to buy me rollerblades at modells for me so we can go skating In the park together. I think she wants a relationship like a couple like she had with her last boyfriend. I dont know what I want to do with her right now In all honestly I just wanted to have sex and I did. I respect this girl I dont want to HURT HER FEELINGS. any advice

2007-09-11 15:38:48 · 20 answers · asked by John g 1 in Singles & Dating

we've been dating a year and we're juniors and she acts like we're still super young and said our youth pastor and friends are afraid we're too serious and we asked them and they dont think that at all.
she said i seemed insecure and am always calling to see what he's doing. um i never do that! thats obsessive. i had an abusive bf so i have a right to be kinda insecure atleast.
how can i get over the things she's said? they hurt really bad..

2007-09-11 15:37:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-09-11 15:34:45 · 42 answers · asked by sony anne o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have gone out with maybe 10-15 or so guys over the past few years. The problem is, I never seem to meet someone I'm really excited about...except this one guy I am really attracted to, but still there are things about him that tell me he wouldn't be a good match. Most of the time when I see cute guys around, too, I'm thinking, "eh, he's cute, but so what?" I don't really get very excited about it. I can also be friends with a GREAT guy but something is just missing. I know there has to be someone for me (and I'm not gay). And I hate internet dating it seems to just be a waste of time. How do I meet someone I like? Help!

2007-09-11 15:33:30 · 7 answers · asked by celee 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys [and i guess girls], what'd you think?

2007-09-11 15:29:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you went on your first date?

2007-09-11 15:28:18 · 7 answers · asked by sarah a 6 in Singles & Dating