i am 14 and i have just gotten my heart broken by a guy i realy like and i dont know what to do...please help gurls and guys
2007-09-11 16:15:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there are others and at fourteen there are many others that will come along and they will break your heart also. at fourteen you dont know love, but it still hurts, you know that he liked you and you liked him, you just have to know that there will be others. to get over the pain, sorry i dont know anything to get over that
2007-09-11 16:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break from boys. Have a girl spa day and just chill with your girls. BEN and JERRYS ice cream is AWESOME fro heartbreaks
just remember it is OK to cry. Dont feel like you have keep all your emotions inside
there are other guys out there and it will take time to mend your heart but just stay positive :)
2007-09-19 20:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind yourself that it's his lost--not yours.
Keep busy and active.
Mourn for a short time and move forward.
No boy is worth you losing your joy over. There are too many fish in the sea.
But take time to learn from this experience and heal before jumping into another relationship.
2007-09-19 11:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think about him so much, or maybe even at all. cause when i WAS in middle school i asked this girl that i liked to the school dance, and she said no. that hurt so much i just wanted to cry, but i didn't. instead i just went to my room and stayed there. but now that we're older i still have a crush on her ever since the 7th grade, but i'm a graduate now and i'm working. so the moral of this is to not think about it.
2007-09-19 12:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by ultra_pro07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime you find yourself thinking of him think of someone 2x as fine, cool, nice or whatever it is you like. Not seeing him also helps. My ex crush of 2 years (who didn't know I existed!) went to bootcamp for 9 months and I almost compleatly forgot him. Any chance your *problem* will?
2007-09-19 21:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by CrimsonInk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, i know this may sound stupid and cliche or w/e... but time does help your heart heal... i know this as a fact... you should also like try to spend more of ur time going out w/ your friends, etc... jus try to get ur mind off him / over him. i know this may seem hard but eventually, you'll realize that he won't be in ur thoughts anymore...keep yourself busy so u dont' really have time to think... another important thing is to NOT talk to him... its definitely a lot easier to get over someone who you aren't constantly talking to... keep yourself distanced and protect urself so u aren't keeping a connection w/ him... trust me i know
2007-09-11 23:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by TheImportanceOfBeingEarnest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over one guy/girl is to get involved with TWO others. Then your mind is so occupied with choosing between those two that you forget about the first one.
2007-09-11 23:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
mix a yoohoo with some antifreeze, down it while riding a bucking tiger, you wont remember a thing about that prick.
2007-09-19 19:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself busy..
so you wont have time thinking about him..
2007-09-19 22:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new love
2007-09-19 22:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋