this guy was good, but he is black colour, im 27 years i know the life after marriage so what i will do ,
2007-09-11 15:50:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NEVER marry someone you don't want to marry. The color is not important. What is important is that you aren't interested in him and don't want to get married right now. You only have one life. Your parents may be upset, but being in a marriage you don't want would be much worse.
Pursue your career. Please.
2007-09-11 15:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All - This person obviously does not speak English - what she is saying is that her parents want her to get married, but she wants to build a good career -
Anyway, my answer is - you don't have to have children right after getting married..or at all if that is your preference. You could get married, build your career, THEN have children if your fiance' is okay with that....and there is nothing wrong with marrying someone outside your race.
2007-09-11 22:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are grown you must make your own choices in life. Marry only because you love the person very much and want to spend the rest of your life with them. Please consider a basic English course to assist in your "career."
2007-09-11 22:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by rcpaden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not interested in marrying, then plain and
simple,do not marry. It would be best if you took
some type of a grammar and writing course so
you can better express yourself.
2007-09-12 00:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to marry until you find a man you fall in LOVE with.
I assume you are not from the USA--but that barbaric practice will never end until women stand up to their parents' pressure & say NO!
2007-09-11 22:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't marry him if you don't want to. You should have control over what you want to do with your life, even if your parents don't agree with you. I suggest that you pursue your career.
2007-09-11 23:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is obvious that you are not in th states, but, if they will listen tell your parents that you want to work first. Let them know it is important to you. Its worth trying if it is something you want for your life because you dont want to be maried if you are not ready.
2007-09-11 22:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is your carrier? I suggest you learn a bit more english before you ask questions on predominetly english boards.
2007-09-12 01:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 27 years old and even though you didn't use spell check you still get to decide if and when you get married.
2007-09-11 22:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It shouldn't matter what color he is, as long as he's a good man. However, if you don't want to get married then don't...you are an adult speak up!
2007-09-11 22:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋