i know this one guy and he told me that he has expectations when he goes on dates with girls. on the first date he would like the girl to show him her breasts, on the second date he would like the girl to give him head, and then on the third date he wants her to go over to his house and its bang bang (well u know)..i told him i dont agree with this and he said that alot of girls said they dont and only a few actually carried through..which i think is laughable..what do u think of this guy..would u trust him..why or why not?
2007-09-11 16:18:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No guy (or girl) should ever EXPECT something sexual. Especially on the first date! This guy sounds like a total jerk to me, and he won't attract any really great women who will follow through with his 'plan'
Maybe prostitutes.
SO, i would encourage you to tell him it's NOT okay. And repeat what I said above. =)
Hope this helped.
2007-09-11 16:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
won't likely have been the familiar concept to take her out to such a pricey and curiously romantic date. Are you sharing a hotel room? Are you dozing interior the equivalent mattress? is this your first time doing so? if so, think ofyou've have been given 2 thoughts: a million) you will many times could inform her which you're saving your self for marriage. Be up front approximately it, skirting the self-discipline will make it seem such as you're mendacity. certainly hardly embarrassing, and if she famous it strange or distasteful - than needless to say she isn't incredible for you interior the 1st place. OR 2) Do her. the two or.
2016-10-10 10:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by rocio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? Man, I would stay as far away from this guy as possible. If that's the sort of thing he is looking for, then he should just go Nevada where Prostitution is legal. As for trusting him....um, let me think....no!! OK, so he told you up front what he expects, that gets him 1 point. As for the contents of what he actually expects...let's see, I figure...negative 100, so he is at a negative 99. Let's face it, all he cares about right now is sex, sex, sex. Maybe someday he will actually care about the woman that he is getting it from, but I just don't see that happening.
2007-09-11 16:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Greetings!
Trust him? Yes. Why? Because he's been honest with you about his expectations in a relationship. Probably 7 out of 10 guys feel the same way. You'd only get 1 to actually admit it. He's obviously that 1.
Now...if YOU don't feel comfortable meeting his "dating expectations", then don't date him. At least you know where you stand with him.
I wish you Peace.
2007-09-11 16:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if a guy told me on the 1st date that this was his plan... he'd be going bang bang alright. Straight to the curb. I dont waste my time with fools like that who have no expectations, no plans, or a future with that person. Tell your friend to get lost and the girls who do follow through with that... well as you can see... they dont stick around too long now do they?
2007-09-11 16:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Then what do you do on the forth date? Just kiddin'! There are, for sure, women that are more than willing to accommodate his wishes. The sad thing here is, the guy has very, very low expectations. And the woman has very low low self es team. I wouldn't trust either of them!
2007-09-11 16:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he expects it on the first date. Uh, well it "sounds" reasonable from his point of view. However, realistically, I think he's full of it.
I don't know any girls that would do any of that on the first date, unless of course, they've had contact otherwise which involved everything but "dating".
2007-09-11 16:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, he is honest about his intentions and what he wants to satisfy his own needs. Notice he is not lining up what he intends to contribute only his own expectation of what you get to give. He simply isn't in to a one on one relationship.Trusting him would not be an issue because I would give him a ham sandwich and a road map and tell him to take a permanent hike........
2007-09-11 16:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he must spend a lot of time wanking his willy if he thinks he's going to get one like that past a smart gal like you. Run, don't walk from Shallow Hal. I wouldn't trust him to clean up after my dog.
So, he trying to tell you that he gets more a** than a toilet seat? And then he woke up! Anyone who has to tell you how it is, is a manipulative bullshi**er.
Sweet Thing, you deserve so much better! I'd offer to fix him up with someone he knows - Rosy Palm!
2007-09-11 16:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by odechiro 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys who expect sexual things after a couple of dates are only after one thing. Girls don't like that kind of thing. At least i don't. I'm glad my boyfriend never treated me like that. Tell your friend hes a pompous *** and to get a life.
2007-09-11 16:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ami Fox 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋