I dont know wat to do..Im involved with 3 married men all under 30 years of age...they also have children..Im in love with all 3 of them and somehow I cant make a decision..I know they are married but marriage these days in 2007 is just a piece of paper...What do I need to do..do I stay with all of them or ditch all 3...please help im in a situation that cannot be erased...Im 22 years old I have my whole life ahead of me...I love all 3 of them...I want positive answers not jealousy answers...
2007-09-11 15:40:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am a victim of cheating during marriage, and am now divorced with two little girls. The woman my husband cheated on me with got pregnant when I was four months pregnant with our last child. Now they have two kids. I am still not over the heartbreak and what my kids went through and will go through later. I don't know that I ever will be. If I ever see her in a dark alley, I know I will lose control and do something stupid. So for the sake of your life and the sake of these mens' children, please, get rid of them all and focus on what you can do for yourself to be happy without a man. Then when you stop looking, love will find you. At the right time, the right place, with the right person.
2007-09-11 15:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweety,
This is not a jealousy answer. You have some serious issues going on. You by no means no what love is. Let me give you a small hint. Love is between two ppl. not four. what you need to do is stop being a home wrecker, and seek therapy. Marriage to you may be just a piece of paper, but it's not to everyone. You need to get some morals. These men have children, wow. Again please get into therapy, and A.S.A.P.
Good Luck
Alabama
2007-09-11 16:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by James R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think that women call men PIGS. You are a perfect example of a home wrecker that is out of control. There are enough men out there that fall in your category. Why mess with these peoples family life. Jealousy, You don't know the first thing about the word. You are ignorant enough not to know what marriage means. Grow up and stop being jealous of the three guys life they have with there wives. Get your own!!!!
2007-09-11 15:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YIKES!!!!! I think you should look at yourself in the mirror and see what a mess you're already making of your life.
Go out and find your own man and stop messing with married people. You might want to think about your views on marriage as well....it's NOT just a piece of paper, even by todays standards.
Next, go seek professional help. This just isn't normal behavior. Seeing 3 men at the same time is bad enough, that they're all married screams maladjustment.
2007-09-11 15:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by wentfishing2 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No jealousy answers here. If you're selfish enough to be with three men that you know are married, and try to rationalize to yourself that it's "okay", and actually have to ask for advice, then no - there's nothing about you to be jealous of.
"..I know they are married but marriage these days in 2007 is just a piece of paper"
Bet you won't be saying that when YOU'RE married and there's a slut out there who says she's "in love" with YOUR husband...
2007-09-11 16:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why would anyone be jealous of someone that has the morals of a alley cat? I just got married this year and I DO take my marriage vows seriously.... it's much more than a piece of paper. You want some advice? Stop being a sl*t and leave other womens husbands alone. You are acting like a cheap piece of trailer trash.
2007-09-11 15:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about which one you will and your daughter will be happy with, i wouldn't go for a sexy rich bloke if he isn't going to stick around, it could mess up your little girl if she starts to get used to having him around and then all of a sudden he has gone off with another woman, that's the problem with sexy men, there is always competition from other pretty woman and you know what men are like when sex if offered on a plate.
2016-05-17 11:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
22yrs old and you are confused as to what to do
because you are in love with 3 married men. Well
there is no-one here that can help you as you need
professional help, and this is a positive answer
not a jealous one as what you are doing is wrong,
just that plain and simple.
You will never be happy if you have more than one
man in your life and a single one at that. If you do
not come to reality and accept that then your life
will always be an un-happy one.
2007-09-11 17:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by RudiA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know... im going to try and be as respectful as i can.... but you are not leaving much room.... MARRIAGE is serious.... have you ever watched tv and heard a woman speak of a man that would lay with "anyone" who would have him..... well that anyone is you and people like you.... if there were less divorce rate might not be as high... i can't say that it is completely the fault of a "hussy".... but it would be a lot easier for people to work on improving their marriage with out "temptation tramps" walking about.... not that i can say you are young, because we are the same age.... but i can say that you are young minded.... you probably haven't fully grasped the meaning of love.... lust... i think you have down pact.... but certainly not love.... also... you shouldn't worry about anyone on here being jealous of you... you should worry about the men you are "playing" getting jealous of each other.... these men might actually be in love with you, because they might not be playing these childish games you are.... jealousy leads to rage.... and in a fit of rage these men might have the mind to harm you.... life is not a game... and you have no right to play with peoples' lives.... you are wrong and karma is a b****...... remember that.... you are just as sorry as the married men you are sleeping with.
*Marriage is more than a piece of paper..... but you know what else comes on a piece of paper..... HIV TEST RESULTS..... Leave these men alone and escape with your life!..... Homewrecker..... you are ruining more lives than your own....
2007-09-11 16:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by chrysteena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, how the heck can you even think you are in love with 3 different men all at once? You have no clue what true love even is to say you love 3 different men truly. No one is jealous of you because you sure sound like a HOE to many people including me. And all 3 are married? You should actually be ashamed of yourself!
Mary
2007-09-11 15:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋