Should I tell my mom that we kissed?

Question

I mean I kinda need her help in understanding what to do and she said I could tell her if we were but a couple of months ao she was like no no no. I don't know I mean people on here arent very helpful and none of my friends are really avalible right now to talk to about this kinda stuff. I mean, it could go eitehr ways as far as a conversation goes but well what do you think I should do?

my bf. she said i could talk to her, but a few months ago she said i cant kiss him and if i did not to tell her

3 out of 5 people understand what i'm asking. SHOULD I TALK TO MY MOM ABOUT THIS OR NOT? AND IF I SHOULE HOW???

Answer 1

start out by reminding her she said you can talk to her openly, then tell her, or write it all down and leave it for her, so she can think before she speaks, maybe joke on the note and say "mom, I'm pregnant, on drugs, need your advice, then write P.S. just kidding, I kissed a boy and need your advice, now don't you feel better it's just that?" I wish I felt I could've talked to my mom, I got pregnant at 15, she didn't know until I was in labor, I hide it, then was too scared to tell her I wanted to keep her, so she was given up for adoption, I regret that now, she's 25, I know where she lives, never saw her, sad, so talk, nothing is worse than being unable to tell your mom anything, I know now, she's human, she made mistakes, never be afraid, write a note, have a friends mom tell her if you're too scared about something. I almost ran away when I wrecked the car I was so scared, I was ready to hitch hike out of town, police took me home, they were glad I wasn't hurt, not mad as I imagined, not close, so remember that.

Answer 2

Not sure how old you are but if you want to have a great relationship with your Mum you need to talk to her about all kinds of things and not hide things. Mums know when their kids are holding back and if she loves you a lot that feeling will bother her.
You and Mum need to trust each other and to do that you need to communicate. I guess if you are kissing some guy she would not approve of it she may have an issue but for your own protection parents need to know what their kids are doing to make sure they are being safe.
My answer is don't hide things from your parents but go easy about the way you confide - choose the right time (when she is relaxed and not stressed out or too busy. And let her know you are a bit nervous about what she might think. She needs to be able to trust you.

Answer 3

I'm guessing here, your about 13 and your excited because you kissed this boy? Here is where you use your conscience, listen to what your right and wrong is telling you and I think you know the answer. So go to Mom, tell her you want to talk and just talk to her, about anything, eventually it will lead to what you really want to say.

Answer 4

Maybe if your questions were more to the point you would get better answers. I don't have a clue to what it is that you are asking.

Good questions contain who, what, when, where and how. That's also how you write a good news story. Seriously, please make it clear what you are asking, okay? Someone here is always willing to help. Take care.

Answer 5

If you have a good relationship with your Mom, then yes, go talk to her.
If not then find an older female that you trust.(grand mother, Aunt , Friends Mom)

Answer 6

Its always good to be honest with your parents no matter how hard it is

Answer 7

sorry but your question is not very clear on what you need help with...who did you kiss boyfriend, girlfriend, random guy...can you give more detail...what did ur mom say yes too then say no?...more details please