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Question

I am a freshman and there is this junior that I think is REALLY HOT!!! I cannot stop thinking about him........i always talk about him and whenever I walk pass him i always get this funny feeling in my stomach and whenever I get close to him I cannot stop smiling! But, I have never had a conversation or talked to him before so i barely know what his personality is like (people say he is REALLY nice). Do I like this person or what??? My friends say that I can't like him because i have never really talked to him b4 but I cannot stop thinking about him. I think there are other people in the school that are hot too, but for some reason I cannot stop talking and thinking about this particular person....why is that?? What is it???

P.S. All of my friends say that I should go up and talk to him....but how??? I don't have him in ANY of my classes because he is a junior and I am a freshmen. The only time I see him is through the hallways, at lunch, and after school sometimes.

Answer 1

Well right now you like him because of his looks, and since people said he's really nice your matching the two toegether to make your ideal guy, but in order to talk to him, that's kinda tough since he's a junior and your a freshman, you could try joining the same club as him(maybe) or you can have you and your friends sit Near(not exactly next to )him at lunch or something eventually you may spark a convo. Idk

Answer 2

Hi Bru,
Really what you're feeling is totally normal and common. You're NOT the only one. It's seems the more you can't have some thing the more you want it.
Sorry to tell you that your chances are slim. If he's that hot, the gals in his own grade will scarf him up.........
He probably isn't really interested in a Freshman anyway. You'll understand that when you're a junior.
My advice to you is to stick with other Freshman and put your energy in that direction.
Now, if you REALLY need to try getting to know him, you have to find some common ground. ..Do some investigative work and find out what classes HE took when he was a freshman.
When you see him at lunch or after school, say something like, (Surprised) Hey aren't you John Doe???...Didn't you have so and so teacher for this class..What did you think of them and how do I get around them and get a decent grade. Can you give me any hints???........Don't hang on him and when he's finished talking, thank him,introduce yourself and get the heck out of there....At least once a week catch him and tell him how well his tip worked, thank him again....While thanking him, shake his hand and remind him what your first name is.....Be very patient and don't hang on him.
If he feels you "hanging" on him, you lose!...Go slow and give yourself a couple of months to get to know him on a first name basis.
Hey! It might be worth a shot.
Good luck, Carl

Answer 3

Let it go as my daughter would say freshies and juniors suck, so it won't work out the way you think. If he does go out with you it may just be to see if he can score.