I need some advice.?

Question

I just went to an interview for a professional entertainment company-and by professional entertainment I mean fully naked stag party professional-. I'm wondering if I should do it because of my boyfriend.

Should I accept this job? I saw it in the paper that they will train but the guy that I interviewed with(the owner) says I just need to grow out my hair dye it back my original color(which is dark brown), gain some self-confidence and tone up my body. I'm okay with that much dancing in front of guys and what not. What's got me worried is the photo shoot. They do like completely nude shots, lesbian things, masturbation. I'm okay with the dancing part, I just don't know if I should because of my boyfriend and because of the photo shoot.

The more and more I think about it, the more and more I want to do it. If I were single it wouldn't bother me so much but because I'm dating someone, I'm worried about what will happen to our relationship. Some of you might flame me but i need advice.

Answer 1

I don't think I can offer any real meaningful advice because I've never been in your situation or known anyone in your situation. However, I will tell you to talk with your boyfriend before you decide ANYTHING. Ask for his input. See how he feels about it. You should respect his opinion, but you also need to do what makes you happy.

Answer 2

OK here goes. I'm a guy and I have NEVER even been to a strip club. I think its a perfect way for a woman to degrade herself. Do NOT do it at all. If my girlfriend did that I would have a cow. Showing your naked body should be something that is kept in private with the person you love, not so a bunch of horny old men can shove their fingers down your panties. The money might be good but think of your self esteem when it is all over. Don't do it.

Answer 3

You make good money but... this kind of job over a period of time tends to warp your perspective on life and change your personality. Unless you have a strong personality and well grounded standards, you might not want to do it. The standards don't have to be "moralistic", but what ever your standards are about how to live and be, they need to be well grounded. Some can do this and not change. Most can't.

If you can, talk to some of the other performers who have been doing this for a long time and see what regrets they have, before you make the decision final.

Also, the "history" of this job will limit other future opportunities, especially the photos.

Answer 4

Be there for her and take a look at and get her to speak to her mothers and fathers... By her speakme to them offers her extra choices on wether or no longer she desires to hold it and even adoption she has extra choices now than she is going to later. Her mothers and fathers will uncover out ultimately simply make certain it is not to overdue. And be a well pal and take a look at and support/advisor her to make the offerings she desires and no longer what any individual "desires" her to do on the grounds that she am has to manage it in a while in lifestyles it doesn't matter what she comes to a decision... And like the woman earlier than stated her mothers and fathers will develop to the suggestion and sure there is a danger they are going to unfastened it however the will not do any harm her or the child. So inspire her to make her selections in an effort to improvement her eventually.

Answer 5

if thats what you wanna do i say go for it but i dont think the relationship wont last long i have a cousin thats a stripper and a professional model too and she has relationships but not many and if she does they dont get personal just fun you know but i think you guys should really talk it over and if he loves you he will stick with you if not that means he didnt trust you from the beginning, but good luck