ok, my boyfriend is perfect. except im 16 and he's 23. were trying to have a baby. he's everything i want. he stands by my side, and i stick by his. his best home boy got into a bad fight last night, so i was the one in the bathroom pulling glass out of his arm. i cook, clean, do his laundry, and take care of him. he supports me, physically, sexually, emotionally, finantialy, ect.
i moved into his house because my dad beat me so bad and kicked me out.
my boyfriend is my life.
should i get married?
2007-09-11 16:57:05 · 6 answers · asked by WHITE*GIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You probably don't want to hear this but no don't get married. How many people do you know who got married at 16 and are still married 10yrs later? Not a lot. Honey, having a baby is more of a commitment then you can imagine. I would suggest starting to babysit an infant and see how it goes. I would do it for several hours. I could NEVER EVER have been a good momma at 16 . You have so much life to live. Enjoy being 16. You have plenty of time in the future for marriage and babies!
2007-09-11 17:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Desiderata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are only 16yrs old so your boyfriend
can't be your life as you are not old enough for
him to be of that much value to you.
You need to finish school before you bring any
child into this world, because you have nothing
in writing that guarantees that your boyfriend will
be with you for the rest of your life supporting you
and your child.
If your boyfriend really and truly loves you then
he will encourage you to finish school and after
marriage once both of you are ready financially
to have a child then he will tell you at that time it
is best.
Don't think because he is so good to you now
that he will be the same when you get pregnant.
Remember he has had 7yrs. experience in
life more than you and I am sure you are not the
first female in his life either. Think, Think, Think,
before you get married and pregnant without
doing all the above because if you do not you
will probably end up a stastic of one being un-
happy and pregnant, without a man in your life.
2007-09-12 00:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you are 18 on your myspace?
I hope you are 18! If you are 16 and your boyfriend is 23 he is committing statutory rape! I know you are in love with him but the law says it is RAPE!
As for getting married???? I don't think you can legally do that until you are 18 either.
SO, if you are 16 you need to leave this guy alone till you turn 18! If you are already 18 than go ahead and get married and have a baby and live happily ever after!
2007-09-12 13:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like the world is right up to speed, life is difficult, you seem like you know this already, try with all of your beige to do the right things make caring loving choices so that your family has a chance. Be Gog responsible parents love each other. Mostly love your children and get your rules and agreements together so you don't disagree on how you raise them. Keep on keeping! Good Luck@
2007-09-13 00:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to experience alot more in life AND BE ABLE TO SUPPORT YOURSELF AND A BABY before you get married!!
2007-09-12 00:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by klynnr_1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't get married. Also, your life is F-ed up. Seek help...seriously.
2007-09-12 00:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋