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Ok....thiere is this guy and hes not so cute,but really nice and kinda annoying and i really dont want to go to homecoming with him! He asked me and i said if i go he will be my first pick but i tottaly dont want to go with him!?!?! How do i tell him in a nice way i dont want to go with him?

2007-09-11 16:55:06 · 25 answers · asked by lynz 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

25 answers

Tell him you chnaged your mind and do it soon so he can find another date

2007-09-11 16:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by jenny_deliah 4 · 1 1

Well, it sounds like you didn't give him a yes or a no. So, you can tell him that you found another date, but remember that he will probably be at homecoming which will be awkward. If you go with him and you actually don't have a date, you should go with him. You might have fun. And if he annoys you, you can always cut the evening short.

2007-09-12 00:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0 0

The nice way is to flat out be honest, nothing "nice" about it, I know, but, overall, it is much less hurtful than skirting around it. A simple, "I'm sorry, I'm not really interested," is all you need. If this guy is friends with your group or even if you never see him outside class, a straight up answer is THE BEST way to go. Trust me, I know from experience and from what guys have discussed with me. (Even though they often don't mean what they're saying.) Worst than saying, "no," would be to go with him even though you're not interested.

2007-09-12 00:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Boonie 1 · 0 0

You be honest and decline the date. Cute and hands ome on the outside does not mean cute and handsom on the inside. Sometimes things are not as they appear. You told him that you would go with him as your 1st pick, it is always easier to turn a "no" into a "yes" than a "yes" into a "no"... consider his feelings, but do not deny yours. The lesson here is to be honest with yourself, when you do this, you automaticly are honest with all around you, Do put your happiness in the hands of others and don't put your perception of another happiness in the hands of you. Be responsible the 1st time around and these things won't happen.

2007-09-12 00:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by Che K 2 · 1 0

First of all you have to learn not to lie without hurting someone's feelings.
Be honest no matter what the conseqences are, you'll feel good , because you can express yourself.
eg. I thank you for asking but I have to say no at this time, but I am very flattered that you've asked
As far as putting your foot in your mouth It is not written in blood that you go with him , so don't worry.
Do what you want to , do not what makes other people happy.

2007-09-12 00:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Looks aren't everything. I think you shouldn't break off the date. He'll feel soooo bad. How would you feel if a boy wanted to break off a date with you because you're "not so cute,but really nice and kinda annoying"?


Think about it.

2007-09-11 23:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

thats just cruel... you told him that if you go you will go wit him. i dont see how you can back down from that.

there not alot of nice people in this world maybe you should go because he is nice those people are hard to find. when was the last time you turned on the tv and did not hear about violence and murder

2007-09-12 00:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You could always use the line people have been using for years, "I totally forgot I promised someone else I would go with them a long time ago before you asked me, so I can't go with you because that would be wrong". It works.

2007-09-12 00:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by Shawnne 2 · 0 0

Just tell him you broke things off with your bf a month ago and still don't feel you can give him the attention he needs, so you thank him for theinvitation but you don't want to go.

2007-09-11 23:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jess 7 · 0 0

Why would you tell him yes, then be looking for an excuse to get out of it? That's not very nice. You say he's nice, go with him.

2007-09-11 23:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1 0

There's not a nice way,you said that he'd be your first pick,Think of his feelings setting your own aside and go..

2007-09-12 00:07:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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