I am 17 years old and I go to high school and I must say I REALLY REALLY LIKE my History teacher! he is the funniest, most kindest and caring guy I have ever met! He is just wonderful! I don't find him sexually attractive but I just want to spend a lot of time with him..... he is more than double my age....
is this wrong?
THank you for any help!
2007-09-11 17:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's really not healthy at this point in your life. Even if it has nothing to do with sexual attraction, you could get yourself into trouble. Wait til you're both grown ups, then you can be friends. It's sad, but true. Find somebody closer in age to you, someone who can relate to you more.
2007-09-11 17:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by avacado pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is good you don't have a sexual attractiveness towards him BUT--as long as it don't go further then that. I had a few teachers i thought were cool myself, i looked forward to going to that class every day. Just keep it in school and don't take it further--i'm sure your NOT the only person he funny,kind and caring too. He's a teacher,your a student..keep it that way!
2007-09-12 00:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by J-LO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
red flags honey & oedipus complex.....
u see him this way coz hes older wiser ,,,, maybe a paternal figure in your life ,,, a teacher can be a great mentor & he has good qualities as aforementioned but to hang out nyah if it warrants it [ie school even] yup
past that no,,, i read too many articles on girls & teachers etc
i could be wrong but going w/the gut could land u both on the hot seat
2007-09-12 00:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the advice these wise young people are giving you.Keep your feelings to yourself,you don't want to be the cause why this nice teacher looses his job and his good name. What you feel is called infatuation,it won't last long.
2007-09-12 01:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Georgewasmyfavorite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
atten d his class daily. but dont tell him you like him . he is teacher and you are stufdent. keep it that way. dont go beyond school. you can go to him in school for asking some questions other than class to fulfill you desire to pass time with him. but never tell him this thing that youy like him. it will ruin him and you too. dont try to meet him after school. there ar eeven many more caring guys of you age in world dont ruin yourself
2007-09-12 01:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by PHD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong, because you're being true to your emotions. But it risks getting him fired because people will inevitably misinterpret. Be kind to him and wait until you've graduated and turned 18.
2007-09-12 00:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Against the law.
2007-09-12 00:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by Tibbar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if its not sexual,than no. Maybe you enjoy his friendship or company, and there is nothing wrong with that........my advice though is: do not push you friendship farther bc you do not want to ruin either of your reputations or get him fired.........
2007-09-12 00:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by gymnastbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is wrong. hes trying to teach and you could ruin his career and its not healthy. remember hes teacher and it not good you are child yet in his eyes so please stop and think hes a good person and you dont' want ot hurt him
2007-09-12 00:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a dateline NBC story waiting to happen
2007-09-12 00:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋