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I do not understand the older women younger men dating, and makes you think it is all about SEX.
I think older men and younger women make more sense, and make you think he has MONEY.
People will say why a double standard, here is why.
Most the time the older woman has kids of her own, hopefully a career. Yet they will date a man who is 21, with no career, no life experience. But he has a functional penis.

So you want to say you in 40s have something in common with a 20 year old? Doesn't that comment make you look bad. If men mature slower than women? If that places him in kindergarten as you graduated high school? How sad to be 40 and have common interest as a 20 year old boy?

2007-09-11 21:01:10 · 2 answers · asked by G1rL1nLA 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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the 40yr old woman and 20 yr old man is all about sex, no ifs ands or buts, there is no trying to have a real relationship, the woman wants a guy with stamina, and the younger guy wants a woman who knows how to work it in bed.

2007-09-11 21:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

A 40 year old woman looks back at her life and has regrets, at least the ones willing to date 20 year olds do. A younger man offers a second chance at the things the 40 year old woman missed out on the first time.

Its not about sex, its about a woman wanting to do something different. Its about her experiencing life with the passion and enthusiasm of a 20 year old again. Its about going back and reenacting some of the greatest moments in her life. Its about making her feel attractive in even the most intense and primal way possible (which many women in their middle years feel they no longer are).

Sure, there is a lot of intensity and passion (and consequently a LOT of making love), but do not fool yourself into thinking it is the primary reason for a lady to engage a man half her age. Most women wouldn't let themselves go along with it if it were that superficial.

2007-09-12 04:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 17 0

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