Given a chance to choose in times of crisis and special situations, who will you choose??
2007-09-11 21:59:55 · 16 answers · asked by ma edna h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think both of us (hubby and I) would say the kids. Its not that we don't love each other, but we have a commitment to make our children's lives the best we can, and if that means sacrificing the other, that's what we'd do.
2007-09-11 22:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Yes yes yes yes yes. Marriage should always come before the kids, and if the spouse is an ***, then why the hell did you get married in the first place? Or why did you have sex with someone you couldn't stand or wasn't the right person for you, only to bring kids into the equation? Really, this should be common sense, but too often the kids are made the priority which ruins the relationship between the mother and father, and the strong foundation that all kids need to grow up with a healthy attitude about marriage, etc., is lost and they learn to think they are the center of the world... and, well, you get the idea. But this type of thing is an on-going cycle. People's priorities are all out of whack these days. Most people aren't taking marriage, sex and kids (the order that it SHOULD be) seriously at all anymore, so is it honestly any wonder why so many people are so messed up these days? Really? Geeeeez. By the way, there really is no such thing as an accidental pregnancy. All sex can lead to pregnancy, and we all know how babies are made as sex is nature's way of bringing new life into this world... seriously, come on people. Use your brains.
2016-05-17 14:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that depends on the situation. I mean if you have no kids yet then of course my husband. But as time goes on and we do have kids I would choose them. I mean they are our future. Me and the hubby are one set generation we would get older true enough. But I always have full faith that kids raised in a positive environment can change the world.
2007-09-11 22:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a time of crisis, I would definitely choose my husband. I wouldn't want to burden my children with anything like that. They shouldn't be worried with their parents' problems, they should be pursuing a happy life. Whatever I go through, I am confident that my hubby would help me through it.
2007-09-11 23:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In all situations I would choose my children, I bought them into this world and I will love and protect them till the day I die. They will carry on my legacy after I have gone.
2007-09-11 22:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey you just helped me with my dilema. I am choosing my children. My husband and I are going to work it out so that I visit him instead of me visiting my children. (Two different states. ) Have a grandson with special needs.
2007-09-11 23:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by cricket T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm curious what situation would cause you to choose between the two. You'd choose them all, keeping your spouse first. If you're not a couple, you have nothing.
2007-09-12 01:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the circumstances - how old your kids are, etc etc.
But your children didn't ask to be born and you owe them. Husbands are adults and can take care of themselves. And I would want my husband to save my kids first, too.
2007-09-11 22:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would choose to give my life! I would give my life to save my families life!! The only choice their is!
2007-09-12 02:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A parent SHOULD ALWAYS CHOSE THEIR CHILDREN,, they didn't ask to come in to this world..
and they are to be a role model..
if u a child..???? then it would depend on each parent..and what would be best for them..
2007-09-11 22:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋