jenny is pretty and nice, we like each other, sex is wonderful but I cant give her my heart
she has ex boyfriend she is still connected to him emotionally.she hides something to me .sometimes she lies to me not to hurt my feelings but i feel hurt.
she tells me she misses me everyday but I cant believe it..I once told her "I dont believe you, I really want to love you
but I CANT,its very desperate feeling" she replied " I tell you the truth " STILL i dont believe her but we are great in bed.
I say to myself
"If I am happy beside her why do I have to question her
making myself miserable, I know I cant love her without trusting her.but why my heartt needs that kind of trust?"
If my tongue enjoys fine wine why do I v to question its genuine french or not?
humans are fickle , what the hell is trust when it comes to love?
2007-09-11 23:13:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cannot have a serious relationship without trust on both sides. Your not trusting her will push her away... you are not doing yourself any favors. This is no way to have a good relationship. If she is lying to you and telling you she is not, then that is bad... If she is telling you the truth and you don't believe her, that is worse... Either way you got yourself in a lose/lose situation..
2007-09-11 23:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by suisse shoggi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship where you can't trust your partner isn't going to last. In the long run it will end, possibly with hurt feelings.
If you have reason not to trust her, discuss it with her. If you are just jealous and suspicious of her, then that's your problem.
2007-09-12 06:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by peliglad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put some faith in her. Take a risk. If she wanted to be with her ex, wouldn't she still be with him?
My boyfriend is still in touch with two of his exes. One because she is ill, and one because she is a foreigner in our country and needs help with some stuff. I hated it at first, but I thought a lot of him and so now I have learned to live with it. It's not ideal but it's not worth breaking up over.
2007-09-12 06:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Picky Bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the most important part of a relationship. you are trusting this person with your heart. I have these same trust issues. it just takes time.
2007-09-12 06:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience, the lingering doubt will always be with you, no matter what she or you do.
2007-09-12 06:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by fetar2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋