my boyfriend is a successful dj, he works in different clubs around the country every weekend, he has loads of fans who adore him, most of which are girls. They are all over him when they see him, hugging and kissing him, wearing clothes with his name on etc. it really didnt bother me at first but lately i its starting to annoy me. And its really boring for me if im with him, and loads of ppl are hogging him, i dont usually know anyone so im bored out my face, while he is getting flogged.
im starting to feel a bit paranoid cos there are so many good looking girls who want him. what shall i do ? dont suppose there is any cure for paranoia is there
2007-09-11 23:03:14 · 5 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're right there isn't any cure for paranoia, but he takes you with him. That means something, honestly. If he had something to hide, do you think he'd take you along? Does he introduce you to his friends/acquaintances as his girlfriend? Is he proud of you? Does he give you hugs/kisses throughout the night?
Think of the positive things he does for you while he's out, and how he singles you out throughout all the other girls. Because you're HIS girl. He clearly cares about you if he is going to take you with him when he could be getting tons of attention from other girls.
2007-09-11 23:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's just part of his job.
Technically all Dj's job.
Just consider them ladies as fans of his.
the more fans he has, the more successful he'll be [=
No need to feel paranoid. Just 'cause the girls want him, doesn't mean they can have him. Because his your man. Not theirs [=
2007-09-12 06:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Roxy Moron 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah, I'm sorry.. :( Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. If he really loves you he will be faithful. If he ends up not being faithful, then you deserve someone better, someone who is heads over heels for you.
Good luck! :)
P.S. I COMPLETELY agree with Katie!
2007-09-12 06:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Elan♪ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him miss you. =)
trust him. =)
and stop being so paranoid. =)
its a norm for someone well-known to be surrounded by people of the opposite gender. they cant push the fans away.
maybe u can talk to him abt it, and ask for his assurance.
maybe it will work.
tc.
=)
2007-09-12 06:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by thiraonthenet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if yall really care for each other you should be fine. all they really givin him is some hugs and kisses and stuff, if he is getting more than that from you, then you should be good :)
2007-09-12 06:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋