2007-09-09 15:06:52 · 9 answers · asked by blaster1426 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
With time.
2007-09-09 15:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know- time maybe? I have had a boyfriend for 3 years, I worship the ground he walks on, and my heart still skips a beat when he drives in my driveway. He has issues from his first wife I guess and doesn't want to be happy?? So, after a year of answering tons of questions, I had to back off. I have never cheated on him and the thought of anyone else makes me sick to my stomach. But, if he can't see what everyone else sees, then what else can I do? Do you know 100% she cheated? If so, it's broken and I always say, if someone cheats, there is a reason. It's not as great as you thought it was.
2007-09-09 22:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by Petitto 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't say if you are still with this woman. But time will take care of the healing of your heart. Best to talk to a good friend who you can confide in, do the things you love to do in life and that you enjoy. Basically, be good to yourself as you did nothing wrong; it was her. I know the feeling and I also know you will overcome the hurt and wake up one day and realize you feel great. Think of the things you have in life that you are thankful for; keep a positive attitude, and if it gets too much, give it all up to God to handle. Good Luck
2007-09-10 00:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with your family and with "good" friends who bring cheerfulness into your life. Do not sit home and become more depressed. Trust in God and time is the healer. One day you will find someone else and then you will wonder what you even saw in this one. Do not go through life judging all women by the actions of this one or you will have a miserable life and some girl who truly loves you will have to pay for something she did not do. Resolve all these issues within you before getting into another serious relationship.
2007-09-09 22:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by Wrong number 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time has the tendency to heal all wounds. The best advice I can tell you is not to rush into any new relationships in an effort to make your pain go away. This is a common mistake that most people make and it never works. If a person is untrustworthy it is better that you find out sooner than later. I have been in your shoes and I have to admit that it wasn't easy. However, with time and through the grace of God I got through it and I am now married to the woman who is truly my soulmate. God came through for me and I know he will come through for you as well. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Peace.
2007-09-09 22:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's harder for guys than girls but the best way is to get back out there and start over. You know like when you were learning to ride a bike..first try you fell off, but you got back on and tried again. Go git 'em! Everybody is different maybe you will find your right and dedicated one. But they aren't going to drop out of the sky into your lap, you have to keep searching.
2007-09-09 22:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Da B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only time will mend a broken heart
2007-09-10 08:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probably be disappointed, blame, guilt all sorts of emotions and this could be dangerous cause sometimes it leads you into making bad decisions.
With time you will gain perspective of the situation and be able to move on.
2007-09-09 22:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will heal you, bad things happen, but we get over it and move on...
if my ex-husband could have been faithful, i would never have gotten with the guy i am married to now! so, in a way, i am glad the ex was a cheat...
i love my new hubby!
2007-09-09 22:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋