I just got a job at a grocery store store about a week ago that I realy wanted to work in for a long time and I noticed that the guys and girls that work there are very shy to me and its worse for the girls and i'm starting to get a little ticked off because I try to be friendly but they treat me like I'm a nobody or just ignore me but with the other guys there all chatting and flirting with them but not me, and even some are dating eachother and going out to parties and stuff but they don't tell me to come.
Why is this like how it is?
Will it change?
tell me what you think will happen
2007-09-09 14:51:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your current situation is normal. You are just a week old on the job so that makes you the new kid on the block. Your co-workers , on the other hand, have known each other much longer. Instead of getting ticked off, give them a chance to get to know you.Don't come on as strong as you seem to be doing, like you are in control and they have to do things your way.Things will change if you allow them to, but you can not force it or them.They are wary of you for now,just give them a chance not to be .If you don't and you try to do things your way you may find your self ostracized and all alone.
2007-09-09 15:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well you just started a week ago. give it some time. people in a group love the comfort of that group. it makes them feel important and like somebodies. but without that group they are nobody. I think people can be mean.....not too quick to let people into their precious little stupid *** circle. I am much older than you and work in a hospital. You would think older professional people are different. No, it's the same. You have to earn their friendship.
2007-09-09 14:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by littletricky 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just give it a bit of time, if it has only been a week or two they will come around. Just go and do your job, you are there to make money anyways, not to socialize. It will get better, just be yourself.
2007-09-09 15:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some people are just not included in others lives, somebody is always going to be left out or not spoken to much, i wish that's how it would have been for me but due to harassment i had to quit my job, at least that's not whats happening to you, you're there to work anyway not worry about whose going to speak to you or not
2007-09-09 14:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another job.
2007-09-09 14:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by nelppik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its already happened.
2007-09-09 14:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋