Family & Relationships - 9 September 2007

my son asked me if i knew any way to ask a girl out but non came to me could you help how would my son ask a girl out with out embarising himself

2007-09-09 02:52:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you fall in love on alcoholic person (girl/boy) do you still like him/her? why?

2007-09-09 02:52:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i done it to my boyfriend and he looked at me and got shy .....

2007-09-09 02:52:10 · 14 answers · asked by chelsea 4 u 1 in Singles & Dating

What are some serious conversations couples would have?

2007-09-09 02:51:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and we think we are ready to get engaged. Not married but just engaged to show how much we love each other.
Do you think its right, please help!!

2007-09-09 02:50:08 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Story so far...I met this guy a yr ago & we were friends but not close friends. He left for another state shortly after we met & invited me to go travelling with him. At the time I couldn't. He kept in touch by chat every few wks and we get on well. A couple of mths ago, he told me he had fallen for me& I have too but havn't told him as I'm scared its infatuation unless we spend time together. I did tell him I'm in his area in a couple of wks for work & I told him to make sure he doesnt have a girlfriend (flirting)! He said, hurry up and come here! I'm so scared. He's been in contact since & its friendly...how can I control the pace so I don't get hurt? He is very good looking, I wonder what he sees in my. I'm not a model!! He is also much younger than I am.

2007-09-09 02:44:31 · 12 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Singles & Dating

He Is getting high with his friends sometimes he smokes right in our backyard.I DONT WANT TO BE A RAT when I ask him why he does it tells me mind my own buisnees. The other day i found his stash in his room I threw it in the trash. He beat the crap out of me.

2007-09-09 02:42:16 · 25 answers · asked by chu_2589 1 in Family

what does this mean?

2007-09-09 02:41:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking to someone on an online game and I think he was trying to hit on me. Anyways he asked me my nationality and I said I was half/black half/white (He was Asian by-the way.) Well, the next day he got back online and I said hello. Usually he would say "Hello" back but instead he said, "Hey girl, lol! (By-the way lol means laugh out load.) I find it peculiar that he started saying this right after I told him my nationality. Should I feel offended. Mind you, I never said "Hey girl" or anything of that nature a day in my life reasons being I feel that it is more polite to say the persons name when greeting them instead of calling them a girl.

Thank you for your answers.

2007-09-09 02:40:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, it's kind of a long story so here is the short version:
I cheated on my hubby with this guy, and now I'm working in a clinic where there is a good chance I'll see him again. It was a bad break up with him when my hubby found out, my question is what should i do if he shows up as a patinet? how should i act? i don't want any problems all over again, but i don't want to quit my job. i love it. can anyone help me with some advice? also, should i tell my hubby if he does show up or that there is a chance that i will see him there? any advice would help, thanx!

2007-09-09 02:36:13 · 39 answers · asked by mireya_adame 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know someone who is already married with kids but finds herself more in love with her former boyfriend (who just left her 25 years ago) than her husband today.

2007-09-09 02:33:48 · 7 answers · asked by Mystic Victoria 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14 and my boyfriends 16 he is what u would call a badboy he smokes and drinks (yeh i no its illegal) etc.
my mum saw me with him and told me i had to breakup with him i really like this guy and im not breaking up with him

if your daughter was dating someone like that what would u do to make her end it?
what would u say to the boyfriend

2007-09-09 02:30:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we now make love maybe 2 or 3 times a month. Do you think this is a healthy sex life? i mean, I know it depends on the couple and all, but can some one post how often does a normal couple have sex

2007-09-09 02:30:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together 30 years. She looks great and sexy for 47 and I worship the ground she walks on. She says she loves me because I'm funny intelligent and kind. She says I look okay, but how can I make her think I'm sexy again?

2007-09-09 02:27:53 · 10 answers · asked by commicallyboring 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a bro and a sis...today, my bro's gf came over for lunch..she's usually this bubbly girl and always looks so happy..but today she looked a bit depressed..i figured it could be tiredness from work..everybody sat down in the living room after lunch to watch a movie..then, i realised that my bro's gf was not there and when i went upstairs i found her crying in the room..they have been together for about 3yrs already..now theyre working and both have such hectic schedules..she was telling me of how my bro does not call her and spend time with her as much..she feels like he does not care anymore for her..moreover, she said he spends much more time with his friends and when she asks him to spend just a day out of a week with her, he is reluctant..on my bros side, he used to be uncomfortable about her being in his apartment all the time..he used to say he needed space but now they live in 2 different apartments and rarely see each other because of their busy schedules..help me please!

2007-09-09 02:27:29 · 5 answers · asked by shawty 2 in Family

i am in high school now and i have so many more friends than middle school. you aren't judged as much, you have more free time, you have so many privileges, and i just love it! except this new girl is extremely pretty, extremely nice, she's not "popular" per se but everyone likes her. she's making friends with all of my friends...except me. and i'll admit it, i am jealous of her. all my guy friends like her. that doesn't really bother me, except i think i like one of my guy friends. ugh. i'm not really asking for help, i just wanted to complain. but if you can help, it would be much appreciated.

2007-09-09 02:26:54 · 7 answers · asked by April 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, there's this guy (my ex's best friend) that I have really developed a crush on. So, I think that I have no chance with him at all, what are your guy's thoughts? I'm just kidding myself if I think that I can ever have a chance with him, right?

I talk to him sometimes, but I never got the impression that he has any feelings toward me. I remember before me and my ex every went out, he said that he thought I was cute/pretty/hot.

I'm just being stupid, arent' I? I'm never going to have a chance with him, will I (b/c of my ex)? It's okay if you tell me that I'm being stupid, because I am...I guess I just develop crushes on the wrong men. = '(

Just let me know what you guys think...I think that the crush will go away eventually. It's just, this guy has the whole package like my ex never did, I think that's what attracts me to him. He is so much better then my ex...

2007-09-09 02:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. For some reason, my hubby developed a pretty intense fascination about it. So as I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him about it and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I wasn't sure if he would actually do it, but with a little encouragement, he did. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.
Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. Plus he was so honest about sharing his feelings with me about his curiousity. Is there any harm to letting him do it again? Has anyone else encountered this?

2007-09-09 02:24:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

About 4 months ago, I cheated on my finance by sending messages through the internet, I never physically cheated but I'm still completely at fault. Now, I understand most people don't change, once a cheat always a cheat. But in order for a person to change they must change for themselves, not out of consequence. I've changed, for myself and in doing so, ultimately for us and our relationship. I'm torn, she relives the event almost every day, sometimes shes happier than she's ever been and other times she's depressed thinking about this.
I feel as If I let her go, she'll be happy now and maybe she'll find someone who wouldn't do this to her. But on the other side, I love her very much and 100% know I would never hurt her again. I feel as if I can make it work until I finally prove it to her I can make her the happiest girl in the world. If I didn't believe it so strong heartedly then I wouldn't still be trying to make it work.... Advice please. Thanks

2007-09-09 02:23:52 · 7 answers · asked by Jambiena 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you with your wife or girlfriend because you want to be with her or are you still waiting for something better to come along?

It's an odd question to ask, but from what I've seen men never stop looking for somebody else.

2007-09-09 02:22:51 · 6 answers · asked by That Girl 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-09 02:22:43 · 7 answers · asked by Red Rose 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i.d like for you to post my crossdressing photos with my name and wher im from.will ya do it ill send them to ya.

2007-09-09 02:07:34 · 2 answers · asked by jimsagirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you do if u couldnt see ur grandson if your daughter is getten told by her boyfriend who is not the babys father not to let you see him?? hes a horrible man he controls her .........

2007-09-09 02:02:38 · 4 answers · asked by chelsea 4 u 1 in Family

I have been divorced 5 years. We have 4 kids together. Two are under 18. I have physical custody of the 2 at home yet. Two years ago, the 16 year old (then 14) decided to move in with her father. At her father's house there was no rules. No curfew. All the money she could ask for. But no love and no compassion. I did not want to to leave, but I had no choice. She was old enough in the courts eyes to make her own mind up which parent she was to live with. She lived with him for two years. The ex did not enforce my visitation. Instead he allowed her to run. I tried hard to get her to move in with me. She refused, telling me she knew I loved her unconditionally, but if she were to move out her dad would hate her. (my ex is a very verbally abusive, manipilative, hateful man.) For two years it broke my heart to see what was happening to my daughter. She told me she hated her living envirnment. That she stayed in her room instead of interacting with her dad's new family.

2007-09-09 01:58:08 · 13 answers · asked by tammie h 2 in Family

his parents really doesn't like me because of our culture differences how can i get to his parents what will i do to accept me as daughter in law

2007-09-09 01:54:43 · 12 answers · asked by wyn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why? Why do women always want to date or marry a rich man? That's very superficial.

2007-09-09 01:53:39 · 39 answers · asked by itguru5354 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We get into some heated sessions but we have never had sex. I am a believer in waiting till marriage to have sex. The temptation is so urging though, i just want to already. Though then it would never be the same when I am married and can say to my wife that I am a virgin. She is kind of pressuring me a bit and I feel like i want to give in but I havent. I dont know what to do.Please help.

2007-09-09 01:47:04 · 21 answers · asked by linebacker43 1 in Singles & Dating

my little brother is 8 and i am 13, he is always trying to annoy me..

-whenever i am in my room and the door is shut he will just walk in and start picking up my stuff, when i ask him to get out he wont so i start yelling at him, usually i have to phisically remove him from my room.

-whatever i say and do always has to be wrong and always has to be right even if he knows he is wrong

-once i was going out to play basketball, and he took my basketball and hid it, i didn´t find it until 2 days later when my mom finally made him show me where it was.


i love my brother but i am just sick and tired of fighting with him, and so is my mom, i try being nice but it just doesnt work, he still causes problems, what do i do??

2007-09-09 01:46:22 · 12 answers · asked by unbreakablexxx3 2 in Family

My solution is to go out of town on family weekends. I expect the next thirty years to be this way. Does anyone have any ideas? My family is judgemental, selfish, closeminded, uptight, one way, and mean.

2007-09-09 01:45:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My children have had to share a room when the visit their Dad on weekends. He has moved and now they have 1 bedroom for all 3 of them. I'm not comfortable with my 13 yo daughter having to share a room w/her 10 yo brother. Are there any regulations regarding parental visitation and shared bedrooms in MA? Or is it just a personal judgement call?

2007-09-09 01:36:35 · 14 answers · asked by MARILOU 1 in Family