i have a bro and a sis...today, my bro's gf came over for lunch..she's usually this bubbly girl and always looks so happy..but today she looked a bit depressed..i figured it could be tiredness from work..everybody sat down in the living room after lunch to watch a movie..then, i realised that my bro's gf was not there and when i went upstairs i found her crying in the room..they have been together for about 3yrs already..now theyre working and both have such hectic schedules..she was telling me of how my bro does not call her and spend time with her as much..she feels like he does not care anymore for her..moreover, she said he spends much more time with his friends and when she asks him to spend just a day out of a week with her, he is reluctant..on my bros side, he used to be uncomfortable about her being in his apartment all the time..he used to say he needed space but now they live in 2 different apartments and rarely see each other because of their busy schedules..help me please!
2007-09-09 02:27:29 · 5 answers · asked by shawty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i also talked to my sister about it and she said her ex also did the same to her and that's why they broke up...do all guys just give up on a r'ship once the spark has died down?
2007-09-09 02:29:21 · update #1
i feel really bad for her since i know what it feels like myself..but if i put myself in my bros shoes, i get what he means ...i know its not my business enough to interfere but the problem is she says she does not have anyone to talk to and she feels alone, so she talks to me..dats y im torn in between..
2007-09-09 04:16:24 · update #2
no. everyone doesn't just give up their relationships, and remain in love.
sometimes people "fall out of love" or just lose interest.
your brother and his girlfriend need to communicate about this... and figure out what they want to do.
it's not your problem, it's theirs
take care... i know you just want to help. that's sweet.
2007-09-09 02:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should discuss this with her boyfriend. If they don't communicate enough, nothing will be understood. If your bro still doesn't treat her like a real gf, I suggest that she moves on. It's all you can suggest her. Or they can take a break from dating each other and give time to your bro to think about this. You know sometimes, people need moment to be alone and think about their life. Maybe it would help on both your bro and his gf. You better stay out of this. They should fix up their own things and be stronger cuz you can't be there to help them everytime.
2007-09-09 03:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your bro how does he feel about his current gf
talk him the way you want to help him about the situation but not to interrogate him or judge him quick.
he maybe have a good or valid reason to tell you about his current gf.
it's not bad to ask your bro and tell him to be a man enough to face the problem.
2007-09-09 02:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by humanistic_022003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bro has lost interest in the girl. ask the girl to hold herself tight from calling him for just a week and not to beg for his time. He will be back on track and if he does not, that girl dont deserve your bro.
2007-09-09 02:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Rahul S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is something that has to be worked out by your brother and his girlfriend. you could ask him how he feels about his relationship and what is going on with him.. as his sibling. but do not venture into lectures or any other advice not asked for by your brother.
2007-09-09 02:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋