Family & Relationships - 9 September 2007

At our junior high girls ask the guys if they can wear their football jerseys to homecoming game. Well my best guy friend ( we both like each other, we told each other) ASKED me if i wanted to wear it. I didn't ask him, he asked me. Does this mean anything. Some other girls asked him if they could wear his jersey, but he said no to them, and then he asked me if i would like to wear it. so whats happing? whats your opinion, does it mean anythingg?

2007-09-09 03:25:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for her wedding present and another friend said to me yesterday that that's a rubbish present. I personally think toasted sandwiches are rather nice, is it a rubbish present?!

2007-09-09 03:24:40 · 31 answers · asked by LONDONER © 6 in Weddings

I haven't worked for over 20 years. I'm scared and don't know what to do, any advice?
I did two years of college when I was younger - a secretarial course in England. Then I got a job and got married. Three years later I got pregnant and became a stay at home mother. I'm not really good at anything and don't know what to do with my life now that my children no longer need me. How do I go about changing my life? I need advice please.

2007-09-09 03:23:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why is it that when i am asking about relationships, people respond so fast, but when i am asking about studies, only 1-2 are responding..hahahha

2007-09-09 03:22:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

That love is stupid? Its not to do with any of my relationships but I just don't like love, I think its a stupid emotion.

My parents have a go at me whenever I say that when they ask if I have a girlfriend. I'm not fussed about girls or love, I just want to live my life..

2007-09-09 03:21:09 · 11 answers · asked by Chrisicus 3 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband a lot. I'm married 8 years and have 3 kids. I fully trust my husband in everything. He is the most wonderful one for me. During my 3rd pregnancy , I accidentally caught him masturbating watching porn. I was shock , hurt, surprised. He could not give explaination but he knew I was hurt. After few days of can't stand it, I ask him again why. He said he doesn't want to request sex with me because don't want to disturb me as I was pregnant. I partially accepted the reason but started to loose trust. He reluctantly said won't do it again. Later down te road I found out he did it again. I felt insecure. I am pretty and good looking even given after birth. I never caught him doing it again for half year now. I forgave him but never forget it. I still not gain 100% trust back which I'm feeling very troubled occasionally. I don't know why I can't gain trust. He sometimes cannot perform halfway sex. He doesn't know why. He has a lot of pressure at work. Pls advise me.

2007-09-09 03:18:01 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Things are OK but I'd like them to be a little better.

2007-09-09 03:17:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am sick of my mother always rulling my life...i don't think its right i am 18 and want to life my own life...But she never wants me to do enything or go enywere and i feel i don't need her permision and she cuts in on me and my BF time together when i'm at his house she always comes and fetches me like 5 hours before she was supose to and when he's with me at my house my mother always calls me to do stuff and my bf always has to do stuff with my littel brother witch i don't think is right...and when i want to go to his house and spend the weekend there she fights with me and shouts at me saying things like i love them more then her and my brother and i spend more time and do more things for my BF sisters kid than for my brother...I'm getting sick of it...How can i tell her i want freedom and that my BF and his family are apart of my life and that she must accept it without getting in a fight with her and why is she acting like this?!

2007-09-09 03:12:50 · 19 answers · asked by Kyle's_Girl 1 in Family

Ok here's what I am asking. Women find a guy and he isn't perfect but he's pretty ok. well, better than nothing anyway. But it's ok, because I can change him into what I want.

they get married and he doesn't change. All attempts to change him fail and so now she wants the help of a professional. so she wants to go to counselling to "help their marrage" when in fact all she wants is help changing him.

2007-09-09 03:12:36 · 16 answers · asked by oldsoftee2001 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ast year i messed with this boy and everything was good until he startin making excuses like i have no time with b-ball n skool so i stopped talkin to him. he would say hi on AIM call me once in a while and i do admit i feel for him and we did things but i'm stilla virgin. he IM me lastnite callin me boo and that he loved me and that we needed to hang out . i told he we could only be friends nuttin more and he said y i said cuz u f!ucked up.i started actin like a ***** &he started sayin u changed and my friends were right ur stuck up now . i bascially cussed him out.
I took pplz advice and i apologized because i overracted . so we talked and i started likin him again and he was like i miss u and ur lips i just wanna hold u . he wanted me to sneak out to meet with him and i said idk he kept askin and he said fine i'll go to ur house and then he said wear a skirt and i said y and he was like so i can eat u out . i was surprised but i figured he only wanted to get sum *** right?

2007-09-09 03:10:27 · 13 answers · asked by melichi 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 19-year-old male. I've been bullied my entire life, from preschool to college. My brothers got bullied. My friends get bullied. I can't protect them. I realize that (1) it's not going to stop. It'll happen at work and on the street, (2) it'll only get worse as I make more enemies and lose the protection I got from school disciplinarians or other authorities, and (3) I can't protect my friends if I can't protect myself. I'm sick of being a victim. I want to do something, whether that means a martial art, bodybuilding, or learning how to use a gun. In 2 or 3 years, I want to be strong and respected as such. I want to be able to stand up to anyone, even if it's David ******* Robinson. How can I defend myself?

2007-09-09 03:09:55 · 7 answers · asked by ? ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Since i was 5 years old and now 14 they're always fighting 7 times or 8 every year. Because of my father, every little thing he's quarreling my mom and every time he lose in gambling he always blame my mom and when he got home he's in rage like throwing things and the foods on the table. I'm worried about my future and my 4 little siblings as well. We are also run out of money because of the habit of my father in gambling. I can't stand no more.
Please give me some pieces of advice to stop my plan in suicide....

2007-09-09 03:08:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

someone who drinks heavily everyweekend to the point they vomiting/ passing out. they also have developed a high tolerence to alcohol. they also drinkit any time they can in social situations even if its in the morning. They love talking about alcohol and every one of there cool stories revolve around them being drunk. This person also seems social awkward without alcohol and shy. (p.s. this isnt me so tell me ur honest opinion).

2007-09-09 03:07:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

only parents answer please. We have a family computer to share among four of us, mainly my two daughters, 10 & 7, because we parents just check mails at home. The 10-years spends a lot of her time in the internet and now asking me to buy a separate computer for her. I am concerned about her school works and physical movements in the growing stage. Please give your opinion.

2007-09-09 03:06:09 · 9 answers · asked by QaHa 1 in Family

I actually am attracted to him but would never act on it. Nor would he. I just feel like I should say something to her. Like "I was just joking", "I was intoxicated, didn't mean it"?? HELP!!!

2007-09-09 03:05:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If a guy has stretchmarks on his back, would it bother you?

Ive got several which i got during puberty, cos growth sperts etc. Im 18 now.

2007-09-09 03:05:30 · 32 answers · asked by Answerer 1 in Singles & Dating

is interested in you?or like you

2007-09-09 03:05:07 · 6 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i asked my mother to help me and my husband and i with food we were down to nothing and she refused and im one month pregnant so i wrote her a letter and she never responded back what should i do?

2007-09-09 03:04:30 · 8 answers · asked by veronica 2 in Family

Men Are getting screwed in divorce settlements, Why should they marry in these times ?

2007-09-09 03:04:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sweet, loving, sexy, romantic, caring, funny, faithful, classy....

In real life, they MOSTLY ALL end up bitches and will cheat on you in a heartbeat. And before you say I make em that way, NO, I don't /////any man knows exactly what I am talking about!

Comments?

2007-09-09 03:03:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they adamently refuse even tho you think it would be beneficial?

2007-09-09 03:02:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

However we have now decided to bring the wedding forward by 12 months and have the wedding next year september. However i dont know where to begin. is it possible to plan a big wedding in 12 months..please help

2007-09-09 02:58:36 · 15 answers · asked by Uniquelova 1 in Weddings

im 15 and a guy

2007-09-09 02:57:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It could be anything, but I would appreciate greatly if you don't get obscene or vulgar while replying because my 2 young nephews are looking forward to your reply.

Thanks and Good Day

2007-09-09 02:57:16 · 12 answers · asked by ZZZZZZZZ 4 in Family

This is going to sounds a bit silly, but I've been seeing a man who I met a while ago, for just over 3 weeks now. We've never had sex or done anything sexual, just kissed and cuddled, ect... But whenever we do cuddle up to one another or kiss properly, he gets hard on. I don't think he knows that I notice, but I do. He's a real gentleman and very respectful, and has never once tried to move things forward (sexually), but sex is the only thing I can think about when kissing/hugging him, because he's quite obviously thinking of it himself. I'm not really complaining about it, but it is a little distracting... Do men have any control over this kind of thing? Is there anything that can be done to stop it?

Thanks in advance to everyone who answers.

2007-09-09 02:56:58 · 24 answers · asked by kl 1 in Singles & Dating

i wanted my marriage to work, but the wife counldnt decide what she wanted went to councelling and he was confused by her. i know there is plenty of fish out there but after this i think all women are the same. how can you date again and find happiness.

2007-09-09 02:56:47 · 19 answers · asked by paul m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok lets say a friend borrowed money from you (~$1500) and they kept saying they would pay you back for 8 months. You find out they are thinking of buying a WII and have been paying a game subscription of $19.95 a month... and has not paid you a thing. You have already questioned them on it and they got mad at you for doing so saying.. "your accusing me of being some sort of con artist and thats intolerable to me" "never talk to me again"

Would you:

- Be friendly and forget about it
- Get mad and question them on it
- Get pissed and go crazy on them (like cuss em a little and raise your voice)
- Take them to court
- Take them to court AND go crazy

2007-09-09 02:56:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how can i prove to him that i have changed? how? i know that i have really changed, but how can i show him...

2007-09-09 02:55:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our wedding is at 430 pm and we want a formal, classy wedding without all the major price tag expenses.

2007-09-09 02:55:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

this guy i know, who i am friends with seems to be such a BS artist. we had hookedup back when we went to school together and he moved away. i had really liked him then and continued to even though he was gone. (he knew it too, cause his friend said he was talking about how i like him) and the times when he lived here were fine but i didnt think there'd be a relationship due to the fact he was leaving.
we talked a couple times (litterally like twice) before he visited in the fall. to my surprise he came in and laid on my bed immediately. we talked awkwardly for 2 hrs and i finally went to kiss him. with that he rolled on top of me and he undressed me, and just pulled down his pants and stuck it in. i didnt know what to think. aferwards i told him how i felt about this and he said "it was a mistake" and we continued to just talk. we even discussed being friends with benefits. (dont know what i was thinking)
it happened again a few months later....

2007-09-09 02:54:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships