Since i was 5 years old and now 14 they're always fighting 7 times or 8 every year. Because of my father, every little thing he's quarreling my mom and every time he lose in gambling he always blame my mom and when he got home he's in rage like throwing things and the foods on the table. I'm worried about my future and my 4 little siblings as well. We are also run out of money because of the habit of my father in gambling. I can't stand no more.
Please give me some pieces of advice to stop my plan in suicide....
2007-09-09 03:08:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
what ever you do dont kill or hurt yourself
just tell them that they're hurting you and youre littles siblings
2007-09-09 03:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by in luv with austin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't mean to be rude but don't you think if you commit suicide you'll will be hurting your 4 little siblings as well. I to have had the problem your having. as an alternative i ran away leaving the younger ones behind. that was 5 yrs. ago, everyday i felt like i abandoned them. Although its not up to you to make decisions for them, tell your mother how you feel,and if you can't show her the question you placed and she will understand. Cause the cycle goes on no matter how i try to run away from it. i always end up in a situation just like it.
i don't know where you are from but i'm sure there are places that can help while being Anonymous. But please don't commit suicide. Even if you don't see it now you are important to someone.
2007-09-09 03:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email a teacher at your old school that you never had. Tell them that you wish to remain anonymous but that you a concerned about your friend, and her siblings.... I got my friend to do this for me, but you can do it yourself under a false email.
At least with me they were forced by law to help me b/c with me it was abuse... I'm not sure they'd have to for you but even if you just say you SUSPECT abuse you'll get people looking and trying to help you.
2007-09-09 03:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh so you're so worried about your little siblings that you are thinking of abandoning them too by killing yourself?
How selfish can you be?
Tell your school counselor so child protection services can get involved.
2007-09-09 03:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to a counsler or some adult! your mom needs to get away from your father! he is abusing her! or at least get some help for his addiction to gambling!
2007-09-09 04:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by LOLgirl <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit your mother down and tell her your fears,and how you are feeling,plsssssssss dont ever think off suicide,,think off your siblings and your the big sis who they look up too,,,,if things get to bad at home go and see someone at school who you can talk too,,,pls email me anytime,even if its just to get things off your chest,,but go and talk to your mother,,,another family member,,or at school,,,good luck xxxx
2007-09-09 03:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋