Things are OK but I'd like them to be a little better.
2007-09-09 03:17:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm looking for out of the ordinary ideas, I've done motels, dinners,massages, etc
2007-09-09 04:46:34 · update #1
Talk with your spouse about it. Get ideas from your spouse and discuss them. Because maybe something you would like to do to spice things up, your spouse wouldn't like.
The best thing is talk about it until you agree on something or comprimise.
2007-09-09 03:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling always says to talk to one another. I can talk till I am blue in the face, but I can't make her listen. My advice is 2 fold. 1) Start doing something YOU enjoy. 2) Take ACTION. Plan and simple....Just Do It! It doesn't matter if you want to talk more, do more activities, spend more time together, be more sexually active, or whatever you feel you are lacking. The only way to change anything is to actually DO it. Don't be afraid to fail because someone else might not like it. What happens if you do something (anything) to spice things up and it WORKS? You already know things you want to try, stop looking for someone to tell you what to do. Just start doing something! DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. TAKE ACTION!!!
2007-09-09 04:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by eric772001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try new things. Get a nice hotel with a spa in the room. Candle lit dinners, wine, nice music. Roses. Compliments. Long, massages with warm oil. Gifts. Listen.
2007-09-09 03:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A marriage is just like a house, a car, or anything else you value. Take car of it, make improvements to it, pay it the attention it deserves. Get in shape, take dancing lessons, treat your spouse as thought they were the most important person in the world! You can't build a fire unless you first cut some wood! Work on it and you will have the time of your life!
2007-09-09 03:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do things like going out to the movies dinner dancing together. Surprise your husband/wife with being more daring. Do things you haven't done in years and that they don't expect from you.
2007-09-09 03:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-31 17:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go somewhere together for a few days such as a cruise etc.. Get to know each other again. Talk about old times.
2007-09-09 03:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by AFRET73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't seek ideas out here in the ether! Trust your own instincts to recall how it was 15 years ago. You know your partner not us. Stop being lazy and take responsibility for you life.
2007-09-09 04:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by John S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your partner what they would like to do. Talk. Communicate. Hold hands. Kiss. Go out for a meal and take it from there - surprise them!
2007-09-09 03:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start taking classes at the local college and have study sessions at your house...things ought to get spicy in a hurry!
2007-09-09 03:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋