Family & Relationships - 9 September 2007

2007-09-09 08:43:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-09 08:40:54 · 18 answers · asked by simple as me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello,
They have planned 2 wedding and at the last minute he canceled both times. Last time the dress was bought and the shower was planned. The deal breaker was that he changed his mind about having kids. He does have a 15 year old although never married the mother. He has never been married. My problem is two things. My brother and sister in law are going to flip out if they even new she was seeing him again.. two. all of a sudden he has decided he wants kids. I don't have faith that he will not change his mind again. They are planning to go to run away in 2 weeks. All the family has said that if she ever even thought about getting together with him she would have to choose him or her family. That is not the case with me as I would not turn my back on her. I am the only one that knows this information. I can't sleep worried that she is ruining her life. Two facts. He make a med living so she will have to work and he is a ok guy. I have never totally connected with him.. Help!

2007-09-09 08:38:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this girl I grew up with (we have been friends for 20 years) told a guy I was about to start dating that I have an STD (which is true) and she said he should stay away from me. I stopped talking to her for a year. Now we talk again but I really dont like her, would you? would you even be friends with her? I have known her my whole life

2007-09-09 08:35:11 · 3 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Friends

I would like to do or give something to my boyfriend, something special that I have never done to him. But i dont really know what. I have done alot of things :p So please be open, and tell me everything ;)
Cheers

2007-09-09 08:29:22 · 12 answers · asked by Crocomophobe 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 34 and he's 22.I'm going thru a divorce from verbally abusive marriage with 2 young children. He's in a college athlete in his senior year. We met on an a dating website almost 2 months ago. we talked on the phone, thru webcam, and text daily until a week ago when he came back to michigan for school (lives out of state in the summer). now he mainly communicates thru email, called only 3 times, and says he needs time to get settled into his school schedule and then we'll meet. he says he still wants me and we still have very sexually graphic convos when we chat online. he keeps saying he's not avoiding me and he wants to see me but it seems fishy to me. Claims not to have a girlfriend either. Supposed to meet today actually and i have heard nothing from him, claims he lost his phone and is waiting for a new one.i know i seem stupid, so why do i still obsess over finally meeting him? why is he doing this to me? If he doesn't want to see me, why does he try to stay in contact someho

2007-09-09 08:28:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

been married now 11 years things were great till I spoke to one of my dim witted friends and she told me about the "THRILLS of SEX" and how her husband watches her have sex with other men and all he can do is watch !
She told me it was very liberating to have that much control over her husband and that I should try it with mine.

I ask my husband would it be a turn on and he said would you be turned on if I had sex with another woman and all you could do is watch?

I thought why not and got a him a friend of mines to have sex with with the understanding that all I could do is watch, with a few other rules in place and the "CLEAR UNDERSTANDING" that this was not a favor trade.

He did it and it tore me up inside to watch god why did I listen to the *****? it was the worst feeling I cried everytime I thought about it.

I told my husband that it was never going to happen again and the turn I was to have was not going to happen.

Why did I push this stupidity on our marriage?

2007-09-09 08:27:44 · 21 answers · asked by The Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girl friend has a little brother who is autistic he is 7 years old. He wears protective head gear he bangs his head alot on the walls he also wears a diaper. I bought him a Tom and Jerry dvd he loves watching cartoons. I left it home my brother was going to drop it off at the house. He gets here came with two of his friends.My brother been to this house before he knows about the charlie . He is very cool with him plays with him even watches cartoons with him sometimes lol my brother is 14 years old. His friends come in the house one them says WHO 'S THE FREEK IN DIAPER the other one says oh! **** I think he just **** himself. I WANTED TO KILL THEM and they are laughing. My brother told them to shut up that Isn"t cool. I told my brother he better stopped hanging out with these two babies. Its quite obvious they need to wear diapers themselves. My brother gets mad at me for saying that am I justifield or not.

2007-09-09 08:25:45 · 3 answers · asked by JOANNE l 1 in Friends

Is it possible to have regular no strings sex with someone without becoming emotionally involved? I find the men don't respect the women who enter into this kind of arrangement. Do you think it's best not to have sex unless you're in long term relationship, or can you not go without sex for any length of time? Is it ok to sleep with lots of different people regularly? So many people have different views on this subject. Do you think women who sleep around are cheap? What about men who sleep around?

2007-09-09 08:17:58 · 44 answers · asked by cara 4 in Singles & Dating

This boy was being. A bit ott and doing things he shouldnt to me. And Ryan said. That i should have told him and he would've sorted it out. And i thought it was so sweet, He puts xxxxx At the end of a convo on msn And sometimes lyl. We hug when we meet up with other friends from school. But i dont know how to tell him that i like him.

2007-09-09 08:15:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-09 08:14:33 · 1 answers · asked by Porkchop Sandwich!! 2 in Singles & Dating

we all know women love to be touched but do men get as turned on as we do? other than down there.

2007-09-09 08:13:47 · 1 answers · asked by Esa Chica 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is fed up of me being so insecure. I hate the way I look as i have auburn hair and pale skin. Girls these days dress like tarts, dolled up lovely, and men love them especially blonds. My boyfriend gets so annoyed and has said to me he is fucked if he stays with and fucked if he gets rid, due to maintanence fees. I have no parents, no family nearby and no friends. Just one or two. I work as a theatre nurse in keighley, but live in Leeds, so its along way to travel. People don't like me as i'm quite and reserved, and I'm very anxious. How come some girls have loads of confidence, it seems to me its all about sex, girls ahve to be tanned, blond and slim to pull. I just feel like the world is against me. My boyfriend has had enough of me taking it out on him and i can't go out and have a laugh like other girls as i don't have any confidence. I think its too late, don't know what I should do? Maybe adapt the baby as i'll be an unfit mother?

2007-09-09 08:11:48 · 42 answers · asked by tessie 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm curious why people dont hold yard sales on Sundays, please explain WHY

2007-09-09 08:02:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it still neccessary?

2007-09-09 07:52:00 · 42 answers · asked by ? 6 in Weddings

me and my boyfriend will have 1 year together soon, im not sure about what to get him so im thinking about making a puzzle with some of our memories on it and decorating it with hearts and everything, and also getting him a necklace or chain bracelet.. if i get a necklace what should i put on it ? thanks

2007-09-09 07:50:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Yesterday I broke up with this girl, she texted messaged me and said that we would break up if i wanted to. Then she texted again and said that why was I had at her and why I haven't called her . I'm really shy and don't know what to say to her. Oh ya, I also went to a party yesterday and left my cell in my mom's car. When she picked me up, I found she had called me about ten times. She'll think I didn't answer on porpose. What do I do. I have to call her @ 3pm eastern time. HELP !!!!!!!

2007-09-09 07:48:05 · 40 answers · asked by mexicanonfire 3 in Singles & Dating

A, Tomboy
B, Girly Girl

2007-09-09 07:47:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the kids at school tease me about it.
but my friends call me kara.
is it a pretty name?
im always self concious about it.

2007-09-09 07:43:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do u know if your male guy friend is just that a friend or hes being friends cause he wants more. I am friends with a guy in work weve been to lunch twice in work and hes got a gf in uni. I enjoy his company but dont want more. How can u tell where the line is drawn. As he has asked me to the cinema and to look at his new flat so where do u draw the line

2007-09-09 07:41:43 · 7 answers · asked by jesabel1234 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Getting f*cked up!!!

Apart of me, wants to be with this guy who hooks it up with liquor so I can get away from my f*cked up life...I was to do cocaine again...I want to quit & say "f*ck it"

I cheated on my ex...I went with this guy who can get liquor to f*ck up my life & now I want to be with him because I have sources to get away from reality with him....

I love my ex....& I think the reason why I wanna do all of this is because I'm ashamed of ever cheating on my ex...I feel worthless & now. I would rather **** up my life...instead of be with my ex...

I'm a f*ck...
Yes yes, I know I need anti depressants, I need therapy...I need to stop whining over my sh*tty life. Yes yes people...

Don't lecture me, just give me hope...

f*ck.

2007-09-09 07:40:41 · 5 answers · asked by Savanna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why? give details pls..thx

2007-09-09 07:38:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

___________ Makes me happy

My friends makes Me happy
Vodka makes me happy
Sex makes me happy

be original and honest

2007-09-09 07:36:59 · 13 answers · asked by Mindi 2 in Friends

im not planning to be with a married guy.its jst a Q to see wat ye women gotta say bout the whole thing..

2007-09-09 07:36:26 · 25 answers · asked by louise o 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-09-09 07:32:54 · 3 answers · asked by partner 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is wrong?

2007-09-09 07:31:59 · 25 answers · asked by ag 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She is on medication but misses her pills and gets drunk and becomes abussive to me in front of children and now she has acussed me of rape I got read my rights and charges we re dropped after tests were neg. In court she even went as far to say she was affraid I would do it to my 2yr daughter . So now im fightin for custdy of my 3 children does anybody know if her havin this disorder will help me?

2007-09-09 07:12:36 · 6 answers · asked by yepunhuh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well what kind of girls do guys like..... do guys like crazy and fun girls or wat? and do girls really have to dress up to get a guy to notice u?

2007-09-09 07:10:02 · 10 answers · asked by ♥xxxxMCRxxxx♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My really good friend from childhood is a control freak. We knew each other while growing up and then lost touch for about 10 years. We started hanging out again for about an ongoing 1 year now. She is a very good person, my new family (my mom, step-dad, step-bro, and me) totally accepts her and says she is a part of the family. My step-dad says she's bit of a control freak but she's really nice...and for me to be a little patient with her. But friendship is about equality. Whenever we go out, she does all the talking and when I talk...you can tell she isn't listening. I'm kind of getting sick n tired of it really. She's 3 years older and in korean culture the older one takes care of the younger one...but we live in America for God sakes and because of that "culture" she only lives by...her controlling issues are even that much more a problem. We are planning to go to Europe together with a tour group (around our ages) and I feel that she won't allow my inner being to shine

2007-09-09 07:08:50 · 3 answers · asked by bettyboop 2 in Friends

Was it a turn-off? Was she insecure about it?

2007-09-09 07:08:02 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating