Is it possible to have regular no strings sex with someone without becoming emotionally involved? I find the men don't respect the women who enter into this kind of arrangement. Do you think it's best not to have sex unless you're in long term relationship, or can you not go without sex for any length of time? Is it ok to sleep with lots of different people regularly? So many people have different views on this subject. Do you think women who sleep around are cheap? What about men who sleep around?
2007-09-09 08:17:58 · 44 answers · asked by cara 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to clarify, I personally don't put out unless I'm in a long term relationship.
2007-09-09 08:27:01 · update #1
I have not problem getting in and out with no strings.
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2007-09-09 08:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by trueblueeyedguy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think everyone should find the way that suits them. I used to have f**kbuddies when I was single and it worked great for me. I never noticed any lack of respect and it never developed beyond friendship from either side. I slept around a fair bit as well but that's always a bit dodgy: you never really know if the bloke's a freak or if he's any good or if he'd like something more and is a pain to get rid of. When I started a serious relationship I never got any hassle from my f-buddies and still remain a friend with a few. And I have never cheated on my bloke. I think sleeping around is ok as long as both parties understand the situation and are free to do so.
2007-09-09 08:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
These days it is better not to sleep with a lot of partners as this is best way to catch an STD and they can kill you (aids)
Wait until you find a person in a long term relationship who loves you for you and not just your body before considering a sexual relationship
The guys will sleep with you but won`t respect you if it is the sex they want.
Any one that sleeps around girl/guy are cheap and don`t respect them selves
2007-09-09 08:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it is possible but its true some people look down on girls that have casual sex with many people. but i don't think this is any reason to stop enjoying yourself to be honest also a long term relationship or not if your going to get attached then don't because some people have tendencies to do that but if your the kind that doesn't get attached then go ahead i don't see why you have to be in a long term relationship. and i don't see any reason why sleeping with many people would be a problem just make sure you have std tests and no your cheap if you constantly commit adultery and don't think its wrong . and male or female you should be able to have sex with as many people as you like as often as you like!!!!
2007-09-09 08:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think people who sleep around and lie about it are simply the worst skanks ... and I mean men and women. But I suppose you can't really hold it against those who are honest about their attitude to casual flings, who tell you up front that it's a no-strings attached kind of affair, and nothing is going to come of it. That kind of honesty brings with it its own respect .... but it's rare.
Personally I was never that comfortable with casual sex, and was very happy to leave it behind.
2007-09-09 08:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you have sex regularly eventually you will bond emotionally unless you are sooo emotionally shut uff nothing phases you.... Men are men, double standard for the playboys vs women who enjoy sex.... whatever u choose stay safe ... There are all different reasons why a person sleeps around...
2007-09-09 08:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by momof3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think most women in general cannot handle it, especially with someone that they really like but wont commit to her. Honestly, I am a woman and I dont have like to get into casual sex because I feel that I am worth more. But I am able to have meaningless sex with someone just to relieve sexual stress. I dont think its okay so sleep with alot of people whether you are a male or female. There are more things that you can catch worse than hurt feelings.
2007-09-09 08:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That thing about it being OK for men is a load of bull. If you want to sleep with every guy you set eyes on be aware of the consequences. Yes you will get a name for yourself but belive me it will be the girls that do the damage. Men will love you but they wont be taking you home to meet mum and dad. Oh and i did sleep around but i didn't know why or what i was looking for. Take my advice,don't go there.
2007-09-09 08:37:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a no string attached relationship happens ALOT!! it called friends with benifits!! and lots of times when you do have sex with thats same person feeling might come in place..usually once you go into a relationship souling for the sex it usually wont work if you want to turn it into a relationship and Yes usually guys look at girls that sleep around as easy and if he trys talking to you he only want her for one thing..Guys that sleep around or normally considered either a player or just horny.
2007-09-09 08:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Casual sex is all about personal satisfaction, nothing else. Once it's over, that's it. Sure, you might get together again if it was good, but it's a selfish thrill, nothing more.
Why would anyone be expected to care about the other person if they're only in it for the sex?
2007-09-09 09:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by Freddy Benson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to get sex where ever I could but then i got tired of it because I wanted a relationship. Now I've found one and have no desire to sleep around. I do believe guys think girls who sleep around are easy and that there are double standards. Things just get complicated all around. However, we are horny sex driven creatures so we will **** as we want to...
2007-09-09 12:02:52 · answer #11 · answered by SmittenKitten 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋