what is wrong?
2007-09-09 07:31:59 · 25 answers · asked by ag 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is not always about the physical. Love is about dedication and committment and the willing to sacrifice.
2007-09-09 07:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical attractiveness is one of the most important things in love life. The intensity of love gets deteriorated as the physical attraction diminishes. Then love become just a ritual. In order to sanctify the relation, we hold the matrimonial ceremonies so that both the parties are consider the relation more sacred. But it does not happen that way now a days. The freedom between the man and woman and the openness in sex behavior has made man more like animals and so once they lose the interest they try to "shop around"; because the need will still be there. It becomes the duty of the woman to remain attracted.
Why do you think that the people spend so much on these cosmetics and all?
2007-09-09 14:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by atom45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what is it you don't find attractive? Can that person change that? I notice some times when a relationship gets old people start to just let themselves go.
I don't think anything is wrong. How long have you been together makes a diffrence to. Before I met my fiance, I could stick with a guy a month tops before I got sick of him. He either did lil things to irratate me, unknowingly, or just wasent the person thought. Then I couldnt get rid of em.
At the same time, I could never ever be with some one I didnt find attractive. Looks are not the most important but they help. You have to be attracted. Figure out if its an easy fix or maybe talk to them. Hang in there!!
2007-09-09 14:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is it you're not attracted to your lover or is it that you just are not in the mood for sex? I thought the same thing a couple weeks ago about my fiance. Then it turned out that we just need to change it up a little bit. We went on vacation and I realized it wasn't that I didn't find him attractive it was just getting boring doing the same routine. My advice is to try something new and see if that helps.
2007-09-09 14:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, this is bound to happen to most people sooner or later in life. The question is, is whether you want to stay with the person even though you are no longer attracted to them physically. This usually happens as you progress through a relationship; after years. It's normal but if your love is strong, it shouldn't make you decide to leave.
2007-09-09 14:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by x010389 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all go through times when we are more or less attracted to our partners. The continued commitment and Love is what carries you through those times. Have you tried to rekindle things with a romantic weekend/getaway? Perhaps you can kickstart the physical side if you two can get away from day-to-day life for awhile.
2007-09-09 14:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by Gwen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It HAS to be weight, so tell your significant other to eat more if he/she is too skinny, or to go on a diet if he/she is too thick. It would have to be a weight issue, because I don't think that you would even be with this person in the first place if you weren't attracted to them physically. People's physical features in their face don't just change. Only with puberty does this happen. Communication is the key!
2007-09-09 14:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by edguitarmaster11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. All relationships mature and go from the fireworks of the physical experienced in early love to a more subtle, deeper love later on.
You may want to do things, special things, that will spice up your relationship. I'll leave that exercise of deciding what to do to you.
Enjoy the fact your relationship is maturing!
2007-09-09 14:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by Boots McGraw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing really. Maybe you two have been "playing" around a lot and you're kind of tired of it. You don't have to be physically attracted to someone to be in love.
2007-09-09 14:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by Brandy N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got resentment?Maybe ya just need to not look at em' for a few weeks.Could also be that they're really not that attractive of a person you just thought so because you were blinded by love.
2007-09-09 14:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by jwilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋