How do u know if your male guy friend is just that a friend or hes being friends cause he wants more. I am friends with a guy in work weve been to lunch twice in work and hes got a gf in uni. I enjoy his company but dont want more. How can u tell where the line is drawn. As he has asked me to the cinema and to look at his new flat so where do u draw the line
2007-09-09 07:41:43 · 7 answers · asked by jesabel1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lengthy hugs. Also, if you start to feel anything for him or if you see that he is with you.
2007-09-09 07:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Bbobs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always said, that you cannot have a platonic relationship. I beg to differ. I had a friendship with a work collegue years ago who was married with children. I used to go to the pub, meet after work and had a great friendship with him. It depends on how you look at it. I 'fancied' him because he was a gentleman, but then he was a good friend.There is no line to be drawn. You know yourself when a platonic friendship is happening. You treat them as a friend. Twenty years on, we are still in contact (and not sexually)!! That to me, is a platonic relationship.
2007-09-09 14:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Somer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All relations are platonic till it takes both of you same room-bedroom.
2007-09-10 02:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those sort of activities are fine, I have done similar things with female friends without wanting to have sex with them, but if he asks you to stay over and have a few drinks then be careful.
2007-09-09 14:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by skullian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 'line' in platonic relationships is normally just this side of penetration.
2007-09-09 14:46:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you find your dress up round your shoulders, and your thong hanging from the lightshade, I think its safe to assume that one or more of you have crossed the line.
2007-09-09 14:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by jacyinbg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when your both too old to even do it.
2007-09-09 16:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Greenman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋