okay i asked my mother to help me and my husband and i with food we were down to nothing and she refused and im one month pregnant so i wrote her a letter and she never responded back what should i do?
2007-09-09 03:04:30 · 8 answers · asked by veronica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Her only obligation was to make sure that you made it. It's not her job to support you anymore. You have a husband that should be able to do that. She might think or know that if she starts giving a little, you'll expect more and more, so she's smart not to get involved.
2007-09-09 03:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
how old are you and what are some more facts on your situation?
Maybe she is trying to teach you a lesson- if you are with someone and you are pregnant and you cannot afford food for 2 people- what do you expect to do when you bring a life into this world? A hand out from the hardworking people of this world? Get a job- tell your husband to get a job and do something. You still have choices you know- its not to late. Think of the life you are bringing into this world- can you take care of this child? Can you feed it and support it? Do you have health insurance? Dont be selfish- if you cant take care of yourself- what makes you think you can take care of a child?
Get a job- even if you have to work at McDonalds- its something- dont mean to sound harsh- but sounds like you need it.
2007-09-09 03:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by CHELIFAN24 THE CUP IS HOME!!!!!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya know this makes me sick, your both able to work, so why dont you do that instead of expecting your mom to carry you and your so called husband, he is to take care of you and that baby, not your mother. And if you are not doing well financially, Why on Gods green earth,, would you get pregnant?
You two cant mae it on your own, little lone bring an innocent baby into this world. How will you feed the baby? Ask your mom? Come on, Get Real!!!!!!!
2007-09-09 12:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by karenpghblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take matters in your own hands. Apply for assistance, food stamps, and when your further along, WIC. WIC will provide you with milk, cheese, cereal for you. And when the baby's born, formula. Contact the Salvation Army too. They can provide you with food and help with your utilities and clothing.To get finacial assistance, you'll need a proof of pregnancy. If you don't have one, the local health dept. or planned parenthood can get you tested for free. Good luck and happy baby!
2007-09-09 03:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by zen 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why should she? Why do you expect her to help you?
You're grown, married and popping out children, you and your husband should be able to support yourselves by now.
If you can't, quit getting pregnant and get a job instead, get two jobs if you need to do so. Condoms are cheaper than diapers and formula.
2007-09-09 03:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
while it's nice for some people to help others, it's not required. it's sad that your mom wont help with food, but on the other hand, it's not really her job to do so.
have you applied for food stamps?
2007-09-09 03:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Coltsgal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
However painful, accept she is not interested and move on
Decide here and now to be a better mom to your child than your mom is to you.
2007-09-09 03:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by MissE 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you do anything to make her feel this way?
2007-09-09 03:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by peanut44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋