my little brother is 8 and i am 13, he is always trying to annoy me..
-whenever i am in my room and the door is shut he will just walk in and start picking up my stuff, when i ask him to get out he wont so i start yelling at him, usually i have to phisically remove him from my room.
-whatever i say and do always has to be wrong and always has to be right even if he knows he is wrong
-once i was going out to play basketball, and he took my basketball and hid it, i didn´t find it until 2 days later when my mom finally made him show me where it was.
i love my brother but i am just sick and tired of fighting with him, and so is my mom, i try being nice but it just doesnt work, he still causes problems, what do i do??
2007-09-09 01:46:22 · 12 answers · asked by unbreakablexxx3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like he's looking up to his big sister.
He just wants some attention from you, and it doesn't matter if it's negative attention because that's better then "no" attention.
Your Mom really needs to put a stop to his behavior.
You need to let your Mom know how much it's bothering you, and that you don't want to be mean to him, but you just can't take it any more.
Then let her know when it's bothering you so she can make him stop.
But try looking at it from his perspective, he just wants to spend some time with his bigger sister.
And if this is the way he can do it, then that's what he wants.
What about if you tell him that you'll make a deal with him:
If he leaves you alone and doesn't bother you, then you'll do something with him.
Whatever he wants to do like play basketball with him, or play a game of some sorts, or whatever it is that he wants to do.
And tell him if he keeps bothering you, then you won't do anything with him at all.
Good luck ;)
2007-09-09 01:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your brother is annoying because he looks up to you and thinks you are WONDERFUL!
he is just doing what little brothers and sisters all over the world do -- trying to get their big sister's attention. i guess the only way they know how is to be annoying!
maybe you could use some psychology on him. do something with him a couple times a week... play games, or make halloween decorations together (you can find a lot of papercrafts for kids if you do a search). go for a bike ride... or even a little picnic.
if he has fun after the first couple times, promise him you will do something together a couple times a week, IF he can knock before he comes into your room and if he can behave appropriately.
maybe this would help some? he just wants to be part of your world. so if you could give him 2 hours or so a week, perhaps he will change a bit?
all the best!! take care
2007-09-09 02:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could do something extreme I think but no, you wouldn't want to (not a nice thing to do anyway)
as far as him coming into your room thogh, you could lock the door (if no lock, put something in front of the door so he can't get in, seems like your mom would go along with that too) Truthfully, no way he's going to become not annoying at all 9your annoying to him too, so you know) You could get your mom into if you haven't already, get your dad into it too (sorry if thats not an option), but probably the best thing to do is get the whole family invovled. If not, then be a big sister, (or next time instead of throwing him out the door, throw him out the window (JK)) but do the family thing if you haven't done so yet.
2007-09-09 01:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Include him. He just wants attention. If that doesn't work find his favorite toy (game boy or basketball or whatever) hide it and the next time he is annoying don't give it back until he quits.
But remember to tell him you love him a lot. He sounds like he just wants attention. My 2 younger brothers died. I wish they were here to annoy me now! Some day I promise he'll grow out of it and you'll be glad you have him.
2007-09-09 01:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe set aside some time everyday to just spend with him- he seems to really want your attention and can only get it negatively. Also, try to talk to your mom about enforcing some better rules so that it won't be on you to worry about his discipline
2007-09-09 02:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dewey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa extraordinarily harsh. i does not of enable that babysitter do this to me. the infant sitter section i do no longer accept as true with however the grounding section I do. The writing (i won't be able to tease my brothers i'm unsure approximately.) solid success.
2016-10-19 23:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what younger brothers do!!!! Mine was the same way what I did was take a little time out to hang with him we played video games and football he only wanted to spend time with me that's all your brother is tryin to do.
2007-09-09 02:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try ignoring him. He seems like he's trying to get your attention by going in your room. Do you spend enough time with him? Maybe he just wants to hang out.
2007-09-09 01:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by skrdude8389 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why Little Brothers are put here on Earth for.
In another year or so I am sure he will do something you can use as lifetime "Blackmail".
2007-09-09 01:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Dionannan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him..little brothers are always like that
2007-09-09 01:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by YouKnowYouLoveMe. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋