I have always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. For some reason, my hubby developed a pretty intense fascination about it. So as I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him about it and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I wasn't sure if he would actually do it, but with a little encouragement, he did. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.
Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. Plus he was so honest about sharing his feelings with me about his curiousity. Is there any harm to letting him do it again? Has anyone else encountered this?
2007-09-09 02:24:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not think there is any harm in it at all.
If both of you enjoy it them I say to go for it. It is pretty common for men to have a pantyhose or stocking fetish.
If you like it too even better.
I think it is wonderful that you can both express your desires and be open with each other. That is a great gift.
I hope you both much happiness and joy in your new found experiences and hop ethat you let them growand mature.
I would love to hear more if you are interested in sharing. Feel free to contact me and let me know. BTW, My husband and I enjoy this fetish a great deal as well.
2007-09-12 10:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by psionne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure more men do this then we know of. Flipside too. I've seen women put on men's suits, complete with suit and tie, women wearing men's boxers, etc. Altho it's much less of a stigma to see girls wearing men's clothing. A 'lil cross dressing never hurt. Pantyhose away. As with all concerns sexual, a bit of curiosity never hurt. It's when it becomes an obsession that it becomes an issue. The most extreme case is he becomes a full crossdresser, even outside, and may go down the route of drag queen or sex change. I doubt it'll come to that, as that IS extreme. Tghe other thing is, if you don't let him wear your pantyhose, he may wear them secretly or even jusp buy his own. At least thsi way u can keep a leash on things
2016-04-03 22:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a problem at all. In fact, some men that work outside jobs such as construction use them in cold weather to help keep their legs warm. A lot more men wear pantyhose than you would suspect. At least your hubby is honest about it. I say as long as there are no secrets, the two of you should learn to enjoy it together.
2007-09-09 02:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle L 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would let him if he wants to maybe buy him his own pair my BF has a fascination with women clothes not that he has actually tried any on but whenever we go shopping for me to get new clothes for work he LOVES touching and feeling them ALL
2007-09-09 03:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wearing pantyhose doesn't appeal to me. But, whatever floats your boat. If it excites him and doesn't bother you I don't see a problem... unless he decides he wants to dress as a woman all the time.
2007-09-09 02:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by sumfin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres nothing wrong with that, lots of men fantasize about it so its nice to fullfill ur fantasy's but next time tell him u want to try something a little different, when u take ur hose off and he puts them on take ur undies off too and start tying knots in them, then take and stick them up his butt and have him walk around like that, he'll really thank u for that.
2007-09-09 03:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by robert d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you would *just* blurt out that you are a gay cross-dressing man, you'd feel so much better.
You've asked this and the "panties" question 400 times, I bet.
Time to come roaring out of the closet, little fella.
2007-09-09 06:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by filthy_crumb 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It does seem a little odd, but who are we to judge, perhaps he just likes the feel.
Does he rub your leg when you have them on?
Is there any of your other clothing he wants to wear? If no, don"t worry,
Frankly if it has my hubby, I'd get him his own.
God bless you my dear
2007-09-09 02:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by luvspace 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your a weird duck. Posting this question over and over again? Why are you doing that.
Come up with a QUESTION that had an ANSWER, not demanding an OPINION.
2007-09-09 05:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by Steve B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Isn't it funny that these people who post the same questions over and over always have they're own Q/A's private?
2007-09-09 02:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋