Well, there's this guy (my ex's best friend) that I have really developed a crush on. So, I think that I have no chance with him at all, what are your guy's thoughts? I'm just kidding myself if I think that I can ever have a chance with him, right?
I talk to him sometimes, but I never got the impression that he has any feelings toward me. I remember before me and my ex every went out, he said that he thought I was cute/pretty/hot.
I'm just being stupid, arent' I? I'm never going to have a chance with him, will I (b/c of my ex)? It's okay if you tell me that I'm being stupid, because I am...I guess I just develop crushes on the wrong men. = '(
Just let me know what you guys think...I think that the crush will go away eventually. It's just, this guy has the whole package like my ex never did, I think that's what attracts me to him. He is so much better then my ex...
2007-09-09 02:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am NOT still friends with the ex. He did some messed up s*** and I will never go back to him. This isn't a revenge ploy, though...Don't get the wrong idea. I really like what you guys have said, I just don't want to fool myself into thinking something will happen, when nothing can. And Ya-Sai, grow up, nobody needs a dumba** to give them absolutely no advice.
If you think my life is so stupid and boring, then don't read my question, catch my drift? Get a life and stop bringing people down. It's idiots like you that define immaturity. This is a forum to answer questions, not attempt to give a smartass response. Nobody needs your answers, 'cause if I wanted to listen to an a**hole, I'd fart.
But, thank you for helping me, it really made me think!! I love you guys, you always help me!!!!!!!!
2007-09-09 09:40:33 · update #1
Are you still friends with your X? If your not why can't you try being friends with his friend, that's where relationships start.
Good Luck.........
2007-09-09 02:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by Dianne L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I started developing a crush on Tobey Maguire, which ended up into a horrible fantasy because he is now married to someone else, and will probably stay married to her forever. I, too, was kidding myself to think that Tobey Maguire would be super duper interested in me; an African-American woman who lives in Englewood, New Jersey, who is also two years older than him, and works full-time in the Medical Office Profession.
First of all, you are not stupid. If you have strong feelings for this great guy, then you immediately tell him how you feel. You'll never know if you have a chance with him if you tell him straight out how you feel.
GO GET HIM, TIGER!
2007-09-09 02:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by Louise Smith 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a real communicate with him. enable him understand what you prefer from him as a husband. Does he pay attention and attempt to be in charge, or does he push aside what you're saying thoroughly? Does he have an practise, and if no longer is he prepared to get one and characteristic a solid interest? i replaced into 21 and my husband 19 as quickly as we married. He replaced into the affection of my existence, yet there have been signs and indications early on that he does not be a solid husband. i presumed he'd mature, and that i enjoyed him; so I labored and positioned him via college, did each thing i could desire to to be supportive of his occupation and make his existence at residing house tremendous. Now he has a tremendous paying interest, and after twenty years mutually and a toddler, i hit upon he's been cheating on me ever on account that he have been on condition that tremendous interest 10 years in the past, and that i'm beginning over. I desire you success and optimistically your husband is punctiliously diverse than my journey. Have that talk & supply his responses a lot of concept. If he's prepared and needs to step as much as the plate, this is tremendous - you adult men can artwork it out. If he laughs or blows you off, or says "hey, i'm in straight forward terms 21" properly....do no longer ignore on the subject of the pink flags.
2016-10-18 10:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by borgmeyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the ex. My loyality always was with my boys. If you try for him, your ex will still be in your life. Sometimes you have to move on. It seems you need time away from the dating sceen. You need to rebuild your confidence. Get your head cleared, then move on. Taking a breath sometimes is the best thing we can do. Good luck.
2007-09-09 02:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by jynx2814 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, stop being so indecisive about your own self. believe in yourself first before going after someone you like. If you really like him, tell him. If you dont, chuck it. be decisive. everyone thinks differently. you are asking to think through your emotions. think through yourself first. by the way!! you are not stupid. you are innocent.
2007-09-09 02:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by Rahul S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do u no somee 1 named bobbi jo shiegal or madison whiterst
2007-09-09 02:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by jeffhardyftw1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so pessimistic? He told you you were cute etc. And for more help more information is necessary.
2007-09-09 02:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you r still young, you have a chance , go and tell him. just be careful , don't get fooled
2007-09-09 02:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by D.Wade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's your ex's best friend, then he's off limits.
i don't think it would be appropriate for the two of you to see each other... but then, that's just my view.
2007-09-09 02:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too long, too boring and who cares
2007-09-09 02:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋