Family & Relationships - 9 September 2007

What does it mean when a guy rubs your leg when your sitting in the car talking? Or when he tells you he has to go, then just sits there and grins at you 3 or 4 times before he leaves? When you go to hug him and he holds you for a long time? I'm confused we're supposed to be just friends, but it feels like more.

2007-09-09 13:50:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres an older guy I like, he's 48 I'm 33. I really think he he's great and he flirts with me all the time. I finally told him I think he's great and would love to go to dinner. He said he was flattered. I know he has a girlfriend but I figured I'd put my cards on the table anyhow. He said he knew how to get hold of me if anything with his situation changed.

Even after he basically turned me down, he still flirts with me, gives me hugs etc. If someone liked me that I had no interest in, I wouldn't flirt with that person. His hugs torture me. I don't want to let go. Why do guys do this?

2007-09-09 13:48:46 · 14 answers · asked by travelgurl73 1 in Singles & Dating

Just for fun only! So that the husbands can see how many guys are drooling all over their wives and to see what type of guys would approach them. It feels so damm wierd for other men, drooling on my wife...lol hahahaha Just looking at her and checking her out at every angle!!!!

2007-09-09 13:48:36 · 6 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What would you do if your girlfriend would sit in the lap of another guy, and then her friend would beat you up?

2007-09-09 13:48:19 · 17 answers · asked by m 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, guys like me, and i'm a girl who likes to have fun and flirt, and I'm always comfortable with them, until I sense that they want me (like anyway, want to kiss, makeout, etc.) And then I just get uncomfortable easily and i don't want to be uncomfortable, What should I do, to feel better?

2007-09-09 13:47:06 · 8 answers · asked by elle 2 in Singles & Dating

So this may be rhetorical .. maybe not...so I'm a college girl and I was dating this guy who I was sure was the best, but he was at another school and I was pretty sure that we were great. So as of this week I found out that he was sleeping with another girl well we were apart and then calling me and telling me that everything was o.k. and that he misses me . what kind of a guy could do this and not feel guilty?

2007-09-09 13:46:03 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Shorty 2 in Singles & Dating

I enjoy watching my husband having sex with other women. I allow him to do so and he can only do it when I'm there. He tells me that he loves and cares about me and we have a very secure and trusting marriage. For some reason it turns me on to watch him with another woman. Am I crazy to be this way or this normal? I'm not sure what it is, but it really turns me on.

2007-09-09 13:44:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best friends bf just dumped her like 3 weeks ago
and now he wants to go out with me
ive always liked him
but now i love him
but my friend says she wants to die or something
wat should i do

2007-09-09 13:44:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so here's the deal: I just started junior high about two weeks ago, and I still have the same sort of crush as last year. Is that weird? Well anyway, I always considered him my friend, but he's not in any of my classes this year, and I don't know why but he won't talk to me! On the first day of school he said hi once when we passed in the hall, but he hasn't talked to me since. I can't tell whether he even notices I'm there, and so I thought I'd say something. I've gone over what I'd say a billion times in my head, but for some reason I can't get the words out. I try to relax, and just talk to him like I did last year, but I have this super shy person problem, and I don't know what to do. I'm still debating with myself about whether I even still like him, but searching for someone else just seems so stupid. I'm so desperate that I don't even care what happens after I talk to him, I just want to know that he's still at least my friend. What should I do??

2007-09-09 13:42:51 · 7 answers · asked by AnneMarie 3 in Singles & Dating

Well, I'm kinda shy and all, especially when it comes to guys I like. How do I strike up conversation without seeming random or stupid? Especially since he's always next to his friend, listening to music, and they're never really talking. Advice would be really helpful!!!!

2007-09-09 13:42:05 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

does it hurt? when u get f*ngered and what does it feel like will i scream my bf is going to do it next saturday and what about eating out... what tht feel like and does it hurt somene help me...?

2007-09-09 13:41:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and husband are separating and the house we bought only have his name on the deed, am i intitled to half,if so can i make him sell or pay me off.

2007-09-09 13:41:03 · 11 answers · asked by SHARON 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If someone assured you that your partner (spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc.) would be paid $50,000.00 for a one-hour performance in a sex scene of a pornographic film, would you let them?

What if the offer was made to YOU? Could you have sex, on camera and with tens of thousands of potential viewers, for $50,000.00? Could you do that to your partner?

Would your partner let you? Would you let your partner?

THE CATCH: Whether it's you or your partner, their "sex partner" for the sex scene is NOT you or your partner, but someone better-looking than you or your partner. In othger words, only one person from your relationship is involved.

2007-09-09 13:38:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is very smart 3.9 GPA (going to law school), tall (6'2''), sporty (college football player), good looking, etc. ...

Well, he has his problems. He does not like to show his feelings (to me), very egocentric, very stubborn, very short temper, and act baby sometimes, etc.

In the past 3 years, we don't get along very well. We almost break up two times. The only thing that keep us going is we have a very strong physical connection--We took each other breath away when we first met and there is so much chemistry between us.

I am tired of all the dramas and want to leave him. To be honest, I am hanging on because I afriad I could not find any better guys.

I know, I am stupid.

What do you think? Thank you so much for your help.

2007-09-09 13:38:02 · 23 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short: i went to a wedding, got really drunk, and this older guy, who's amazing and talented and cute thinks i'm beautiful and he gave me his number, but he goes to college in another town, idk when he's going back...i called him like 2 1/2 hours ago, and his mom picked up, but i asked if he was there, and she said yea but he'd call me back....gahhh what should i do? should i call again? should i wait? he was really honestly amazing....i'll see him in november either way so idk...

2007-09-09 13:36:59 · 4 answers · asked by Natasha M 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I don't get what its saying first of all
I sent a package from canada post, on august 31st.
After I went on the computer and went to canada post.com
to track a package. I typed the code in and it the info i sent.
and it says Service Standard Delivery Date: 2007/09/13 ? I don't get what that means and today i typed the code in again and it said 2007/09/08 09:55 SOOKE, BC Item out for delivery ? Does the person need to go to the mail office and get it? or does the mail carrier give it to them? I don't get what that means. Item out for delivery? Ah i need some serious answers.

2007-09-09 13:36:49 · 1 answers · asked by kevin j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you think my bf will get the point that i wont put up with his stupid mind tricks or will that make him even anger? please help i want to call him badly but everytime i call him he wont answer my calls nor return my calls

2007-09-09 13:36:35 · 3 answers · asked by shy_bell80 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-09 13:34:28 · 3 answers · asked by Zelda G 1 in Singles & Dating

yo i hate that my gf smokes... her breath is an ash tray... i love her but it pisses me off so much

2007-09-09 13:33:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I dont feel well I would like someone to cuddle me and give me a little massage. What about you?

2007-09-09 13:32:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-09 13:32:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dear God:
I know that I'm a sinner. I deserve Hell. But You sent Jesus to die for my sins. I believe that He died and rose again. I ask you now to forgive my sins, once an for all. I now receive Jesus Christ as my Lord and Personal Saviour. Please come into my heart and save me, Help me to know I am saved and live for You, the rest of my life. In Jesus' Name I pray, Amen.

2007-09-09 13:31:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-09 13:31:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why do some people feel like there should be something more? Larger house, newer car, shouldn't we be content with what we have?

2007-09-09 13:27:36 · 32 answers · asked by grace 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Daughter is 16 and doing lots of things that 16 year olds shouldnt be doing. She's drinking & smoking, staying out all night, trying to date 23 year olds. Her and I have been very close thru the years and have been thru alot . She is very open with me , heck she still calls me mommy. I do love her dearly and have sat down many times and talked with her about the things shes doing. She tells me I don't understand .
I've went to get her from where shes been ( at different places), I've grounded her and even while grounded she stayed out all night at a guys house and came home with hickies all over.When I was calling looking for her she had the guy lie to me and say he hadn't seen her. I feel like that was just a slap in my face. Her dad and I aren't together and he's kind of mean, so I only told him about the one incident . He came over and was kind of abusive, but she did straighten up for about a day. My question is what can I do next ? Do I report her as a runaway Any Advice???

2007-09-09 13:26:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just bought a house. I looked at this house once with my fiance when we were doing better, BUT he does not know that I made and offer, they accepted and it just closed escrow this week bc my fiance and I are not getting along well at all now and I want to continue to live in my place and he in his. I haven't told him about the house because he calls it "our" dream home. I think that this is not the time. He thinks we, my 14 yr. old son and I, should try to work things out by moving in WITH HIM and his 14 yr. old daughter. (Remember, he doesn't know abt. the new house.) My fiance and my son are at odds, he now calls him untrustworthy and a liar because he quit football and didn't tell him--he was scared of him--I'm dishonest too, because I told my son to tell him himself, and my son evaded the issue and I didn't push him. His daughter hated my son (jealous) from day 1, so now he ignores her, and on, I want to quit, but, his temper is BAD. Do I tell him abt. the house or not?

2007-09-09 13:23:09 · 2 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4 in Family

Man i wanna piss them off SOOOOO bad! If you have any other ideas tell me!

2007-09-09 13:22:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

are older men blind to how they look to most young women?
if so, why don't they wear glasses.

also, the younger women always expect money or something of value from the much older guy.

2007-09-09 13:18:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what a blumpkin is.......my fiancee wants one but i have no idea what it iss...please dont laugh.

2007-09-09 13:17:38 · 27 answers · asked by Christina R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

At work, my boss is always trying to monopolize on my "cuteness." Women comment on my good skin and nice hair when I'm working the register. Toothless old men tell me I'm pretty and all the guys must be after me. Sadly, I was asked out by a mentally retarded man who comes in every now and then. Yet, no guy my age (20s) ever asks me out. They pretty much don't talk to me. I'm about ready to tell everyone to shut up when they comment on my looks. I just don't get it.

2007-09-09 13:17:35 · 21 answers · asked by MR. Tumnus 3 in Singles & Dating