A liar or a sneak?

Question

I just bought a house. I looked at this house once with my fiance when we were doing better, BUT he does not know that I made and offer, they accepted and it just closed escrow this week bc my fiance and I are not getting along well at all now and I want to continue to live in my place and he in his. I haven't told him about the house because he calls it "our" dream home. I think that this is not the time. He thinks we, my 14 yr. old son and I, should try to work things out by moving in WITH HIM and his 14 yr. old daughter. (Remember, he doesn't know abt. the new house.) My fiance and my son are at odds, he now calls him untrustworthy and a liar because he quit football and didn't tell him--he was scared of him--I'm dishonest too, because I told my son to tell him himself, and my son evaded the issue and I didn't push him. His daughter hated my son (jealous) from day 1, so now he ignores her, and on, I want to quit, but, his temper is BAD. Do I tell him abt. the house or not?

Answer 1

I don't see anything you're basing a relationship on. I'm sure there's something, but it's not listed here. It's up to you and your fiance to find the positives. I'd also go slowly since your son is afraid of him. Kids can sense when something is wrong, even when they can't put a name to it.
There seems to be something beyond your son, since it's not really your fiace's business what your son's extracarricular activities are he has no reason to react the way he did.
From your description, he seems to be controlling.

Answer 2

this is so confusing i guess tell him about the house and if it doesn't work then move on you don't need a lil spoiled girl and a pissed of man at YOUR boy not HIS but yours