Family & Relationships - 9 September 2007

My mother often leaves for days at a time without calling. My brother and sister and I are in high school. We live with my grandma and my mother is hardly employed. She goes off with one of her friends, always, instead of being with her kids. I've tried talking with her, she says it is because we treat her like crap. I have no idea what to do. Should I report her?

2007-09-09 14:17:28 · 14 answers · asked by Fernando C 1 in Family

people are asking if we go out and people are saying that i should go for it because hes hot but i know him better than that

2007-09-09 14:17:18 · 7 answers · asked by junequeen30 2 in Singles & Dating

So me and my girlfriend have been together for about 4 months.. I live about 40 minutes away from her, about to get a job in the same town as her and everything. It's not long distance, easily driveable.. she works nights, I work days. I see her on weekends, and as much as possible.

Well tonight I asked her to dinner.. and she said "I don't know... no more until you are moving down here.." and I go, "what does that mean?" And she says.. "Oh, Nothing." So I press the issue and she goes, "I just want you to move down here faster.. did it work?" The job starts in a month or two.. nothing else I can do really.. and I really like this girl A LOT.. what do I do now??

She said, "I know we can work it out.. I just want you here, now & forever with me.."

2007-09-09 14:17:11 · 8 answers · asked by aa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so I was complaining to my guy friend about being a girl (only because of High School sports and all the politics), and he said at least I'm a pretty girl. And I thanked him (like I always do when he compliments me). But as I thought about it, that wasn't the first time he's said I'm pretty. He's even said I'm beautiful. So, I've been thinking, could he have some sort of feelings for me? There's a two year age difference between the two of us (he can drive and I can't), and we've know each other for about five years (talked on the phone for about 2). I'm not sure if I do, but I have no idea how to figure it out.

Thanks for helping out a clueless girl!!

2007-09-09 14:14:54 · 24 answers · asked by Hockey Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

The older we get the farther away we go. She stops calling me to hangout, but still says we are friends. It makes me feel like I am in a way of something. Can it be something about other guys that she don’t want me around? What can I do? I can't turn my back on a friend.

2007-09-09 14:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by Luby 5 in Singles & Dating

pull a guy in ?????

in ur o/p

2007-09-09 14:12:43 · 4 answers · asked by rawr 3 in Singles & Dating

we need help on ideas for our april fools wedding. such as ideas for decoration,favors, games, drinks....just anything will do

2007-09-09 14:12:21 · 5 answers · asked by Shaquale C 1 in Weddings

Would you stay with your husband after he has had 2 affairs and is in love with the other woman? Worried about the kids and money.

2007-09-09 14:11:26 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-09 14:09:13 · 10 answers · asked by Paul 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend goes to a different college than me. He goes out most nights and I try to convince myself to trust him but it doesn't always work out. He has never given me a reason not to trust him and he says that he would never do anything to hurt my feelings. He always calls me when he gets back home and I ask him the usual questions, "where did you go," "who were you with", what did you do", but I don't ask in a nagging way. Well last night I was asking the usual questions and he acted like he was really annoyed with me. I apologized for asking him and asked if everything was okay and he said yes. Well he fell asleep while we were talking so I just hung up. He hasn't talked to me at all yet today, on the phone or online. I don't usually like to make the first move to talk, and I don't want to annoy him. Should I call him or wait for him to call me?

Sorry this probably sounds like teenage drama...

2007-09-09 14:08:37 · 11 answers · asked by asummersheart 2 in Singles & Dating

every weekend i hang out with my friend & her boyfriend. i've started to like him. i cant tell my bff cuz she'd flip!!!!! and i know that once they break up its rly bad to go out with ur bff's ex. any advice?!?!
thanks

2007-09-09 14:07:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does this mean?

BTW he's dating one of my friends, and i have a crush on him

2007-09-09 14:07:08 · 17 answers · asked by Mary M 1 in Singles & Dating

OKAY i know everyone, even a little bit cares about looks, but i get kinda scared cuz ive gained alot of weight and i havent seen my best friend in forever, but he tells me he loves me and he wants to be with me, and ima see him in like 2 weeks, and what if he dont like what he sees? but he be sayin he wanna wife me....

2007-09-09 14:07:00 · 15 answers · asked by S0oFreSSh 1 in Singles & Dating

what do u look for in a gf personality, looks, smartness?

2007-09-09 14:06:47 · 7 answers · asked by brenda m 1 in Singles & Dating

my grandma has alzheimers and she is i would say in the moderate stage she knows who everyone she is close to is and everything its more the not so important things she tends to forget, anyway

her dog she has had for 11 years and is practically her baby needs to be put to sleep and she has come to terms with this it is just a matter of when, i know this will be terrible and hard for her, and i hope afterward she remembers that she passed away and doesnt try to find her or feed her,

but i think it would be easier for her to cope if she had a new animal, do you think an old house trained dog would be good company, or a cat but they are not as affectionate, i just wanted some advice on this and if youve ever been in a similar situation id like to hear your input

thanks so much

--alison

2007-09-09 14:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

trumpet or sax

2007-09-09 14:06:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my friend kinda lost alot of her friends. she was telling me about how she cant trust them no more. and that hella ish has been happening to her these past 2 weeks, what can i do to help her out?

2007-09-09 14:05:26 · 15 answers · asked by Adrian 2 in Friends

2007-09-09 14:05:23 · 12 answers · asked by anju a 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for about 5 months. The whole month of July he spent with his boys in Vietnam for 3 weeks. every weekend for the whole month of August was booked with his family functions, weddings, b-days, house warmings you name it. I went with him to all of them.
There were times that we'd drive to the east bay to see his family even in the middle of the week. Its the 2nd week of September and both weekends, he went home to visit his family. I'm starting to get irritatated because there are way to many family events of his and he doesn't schedule in quality time for us as much as he schedules his family in . we see each other everyday because we practically live together, he claims that we see each other everyday and isn't that enough?
My complaint is that I'd like to go out with him and do things and not just watch t.v at home and call that quality time. Is it right for me to be irritated with this? He says that I shouldn't.

2007-09-09 14:03:35 · 11 answers · asked by kiki 2 in Family

I LOVE N!

2007-09-09 14:02:15 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

After 33 years he told me he never love me ,but we have 3 children ,what i did wrong?

2007-09-09 13:59:59 · 33 answers · asked by Marie T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I volunteered to teach 4-6 grade in my small church. the first two weeks we dont have lesson plans so i need ideas please

2007-09-09 13:59:50 · 3 answers · asked by Curly 3 in Family

2007-09-09 13:59:47 · 20 answers · asked by elledionne 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend in the whole world cannot seem to get a boyfriend..she is really nice and funny but she is about 5'6 and 170 pounds..y do guys care about weight? she has a pretty face she is just a little overweight..

2007-09-09 13:59:23 · 7 answers · asked by jojee!! 2 in Singles & Dating

almost 20 yrs old...and help after family meals also...

2007-09-09 13:57:28 · 11 answers · asked by goodcarol2003 1 in Family

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My Fav is # 2 because she is very pretty and has a great body..but so does number 1..I just would pick # 2..Plus she's short like me! Both are beautiful. Plus I love 2s curves! shes just curvy all over.. I wish I had her body! Guys would be drooling over me lol.

2007-09-09 13:53:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you cope when you guys feel bored..and when your apartment, home gets real quite...does tv watching help you feel less lonely and what others things help you cope.

What advice do you have for people who are living by themselves for the first time?

2007-09-09 13:53:19 · 17 answers · asked by B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

???

2007-09-09 13:53:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok today this professional hypnotist came to our school for an assembly and she was showing us some cool things with her hypnotizing so then she called for a voulenteer and she picked my little brother whos in 6th grade (im in 7th) and she called him to the stage and then she did this hypnotizing thing and she said when i clap my hands you will be a 12 year old girl. so she clapped her hands and my brother opened his eyes and then the lady said now your hair looks a little down today and my brother siad totally it was funi cuz he actually acted like a girl and the lady got some pink bows out of her bag and tied them in my bros hair and then said do you want some lip gloss and eyeshadow too? and my brother siad ok so she put the makeup onhim and she showed him a mirror and he siad it looks so good then she chaneged himback to a boy and then he looked dazed and then she showed him the mirror and he screamed! lol it was funi he cudnt get the bows out either now everyones calin him my sis

2007-09-09 13:51:41 · 5 answers · asked by Abby T 2 in Family

most women i know will sit and complain about the jerks they are involved with. How they never do anything to further the relationship. I know one that is pregnant with her bf's child and he spends most of his free time talkin or texting his exwife, she constantly complains yet she stays with him...........What's the deal?

The nicest guy in the world could be staring them right in the face and yet they stay with the ******. I just don't get it???/

2007-09-09 13:50:15 · 16 answers · asked by fatty_cat001 1 in Singles & Dating