so my friend kinda lost alot of her friends. she was telling me about how she cant trust them no more. and that hella ish has been happening to her these past 2 weeks, what can i do to help her out?
2007-09-09 14:05:26 · 15 answers · asked by Adrian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just be there for her, and tell her she dont need anyone but herself and fam
2007-09-09 14:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by S0oFreSSh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a step back. Find out, however possible, what she might have done to contribute to her loss of friends. I don't mean to be insensitive, but sometimes people can do or say things that drive people away. Sometimes people repel people without intending to. Be sure first that you want to befriend this person.
If you can be mature and decide she's someone who deserves your support, just spend some time with her. Include her in your girlfriends' nights out or any other group gatherings you can.
Just ensure that she's being honest with you first. Then work on including her in the opportunities you have. Good luck, sweetie!
2007-09-09 21:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by rb29440 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to be there for her and let her know that you'll always be there for her and that you're a trrue friend. Otherwise, try to just let her see the positives in her life, even tho for her it might be hard b/c of all the "bad" things going on.
2007-09-09 21:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure that u can be trusted and u wont disappoint her ..and reasssure her that she still has you as a friend and theres nothing to worry about. just be a good friend to her so she knows that she still aatlease has one left. treat her like a friend bring her out nd things!
2007-09-09 21:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by blazzingred30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her...tell her that she doesn't need people that are not going to trust her and that they are not worth her time...show here that you care and are their for her. just listen...give her a shoulder to cry on, etc...help her meet new people that she can trust
2007-09-09 21:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ perfect angel lips ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be the friend that no one else could be and a friend you would like to have.
2007-09-09 21:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her that she can trust you if YOU ARE TRUSTFUL.be her friend and look out for her!
2007-09-09 21:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if there is a particular reason she can't trust them. Is she hearing voices maybe?
2007-09-09 21:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh dont worry about this.
you should meet some of your friends with her and maybe they will hae a lot in common
2007-09-09 21:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree just be there and help her out, done leave her side. take her out and have some fun, get her jmind off things.
2007-09-09 21:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by oklndnatioon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋