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my grandma has alzheimers and she is i would say in the moderate stage she knows who everyone she is close to is and everything its more the not so important things she tends to forget, anyway

her dog she has had for 11 years and is practically her baby needs to be put to sleep and she has come to terms with this it is just a matter of when, i know this will be terrible and hard for her, and i hope afterward she remembers that she passed away and doesnt try to find her or feed her,

but i think it would be easier for her to cope if she had a new animal, do you think an old house trained dog would be good company, or a cat but they are not as affectionate, i just wanted some advice on this and if youve ever been in a similar situation id like to hear your input

thanks so much

--alison

2007-09-09 14:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

7 answers

It is refreshing to hear that you are worried about your grandmother and how she will take this loss. You must be a great loving person. I think it would be a good idea if you got her to love a dog now so that she does have a dogie to love her back. That is a great idea your really smart to think ahead and not after the fact. Good Luck and I hope you remember that your grandmother might forget who you are but it will not change the fact that you will always remember her.

2007-09-09 14:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0 0

They say that the companion of pets is a good thing for the elderly, but it is for sure that there will come a day she no longer knows she has the pet. Can you or someone take on the responsibility for the pet afterwards? If so I would say it would be an act of kindness to provide a new pet. You can read about Alzheimers at various help sites, but some human stories can be found also at:
http://www.helium.com/tm/575632/older-amount-information-which

2007-09-10 04:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by eat my shorts 3 · 0 0

I think a puppy would be too confusing for her, but maybe if you could find a friendly grown dog, already fixed, and utd on shots. But you MUST take her with you to find one. She will be easily confused by all of this, and any memory you can induce in her of this transaction would be better for her. Make sure that if she adopts a dog, that you or another close family member will be willing to take over its care if the need arises, it wouldn't be fair to the dog, otherwise. I think you are wonderful, Alison, for being so strong in light of what you know in your heart is happening. Just remember, that no matter what transpires in the next few years, that your grandmother loves you and always will. God bless you all. :)

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2016-10-18 11:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by courts 4 · 0 0

See if you can find an animal similar to her dog and get it trained so your grandma won't miss a beat... same name and all that. Switch them out when the time comes.
Yeah, I know it is devious.
Try to give Grandma the best last few years of cognition that you can.

2007-09-09 15:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1 0

I used to work in an alzheimers unit,and I know it is hard on you and your family.I think getting her another pet would be great,she really needs companionship right now.If you need any advice on anyhting concerning your grandmother feel free to email me @nicolewayt@yahoo.com.I worked with alzheimers patients for about 10 years,so feel free to contact me.GOOD LUCK!!!!!!

2007-09-09 14:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by flavagirl 5 · 1 0

So sorry, wish I had an answer.

2007-09-09 14:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Glinda W 6 · 0 0

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