At work, my boss is always trying to monopolize on my "cuteness." Women comment on my good skin and nice hair when I'm working the register. Toothless old men tell me I'm pretty and all the guys must be after me. Sadly, I was asked out by a mentally retarded man who comes in every now and then. Yet, no guy my age (20s) ever asks me out. They pretty much don't talk to me. I'm about ready to tell everyone to shut up when they comment on my looks. I just don't get it.
2007-09-09 13:17:35 · 21 answers · asked by MR. Tumnus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they like hotness
2007-09-09 13:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
paradoxically the extra suitable finding you are the harder this is to truly connect with a sturdy guy or woman. the difficulty is while females are so lovable/surprisingly/warm/insert different term right here that she will become no longer in effortless terms a guy or woman yet a tantalizing merchandise, i think of it somewhat is the terrific be conscious for it. because of the fact she's there, yet purely out of attain of mere mortals... and this is unhappy that as a consequence the lady thinks she's grotesque... or doing somethin incorrect... far from it nevertheless, so don't experience undesirable. I propose purely the different day i spotted an *somewhat* lovable lady in my information type... and replaced into bowled over to be conscious her examining a e book approximately dropping weight and assorted diets etc. She replaced into surely proper finding!! Why are females so fearful approximately their seems as quickly as they already look super? this is that adult males are afraid to invite, no longer that they are disgusted (a good number of the time besides). 5 kilos obese will no longer instruct me off, i don't be conscious such discrepencies between perfection and imperfection like a woman does... she must be like 50 kilos+ obese to truly be conscious in my eyes.
2016-12-16 15:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by rushford 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're waiting to be asked out when frankly, it's pretty impossible to tell whether an individual woman is actually with somebody or not (unless they've got on a wedding ring).
You're probably having a lot of guys interested, but they figure "she's way too cute to be single, I'm not even going to ask."
2007-09-09 13:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by airjarrod 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey look, Cute One, don't be so touchy...20 year old men are on a different evolutionary plane of existence right now. Give them time and they'll catch up. By the way, don't you find the term "mentally hadicapped" or challenged more palatable coming out of your cute face?
By the way, why would that girl's boobs be sticking out of her shorts?
2007-09-09 13:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was all good 'til you mentioned the retarded guy asking you out. Hahahahahahaha! I'm sorry luv, that sht was funny. Anyways, I'm a bit curious what you actually look like now. Old men and retards huh? Lmao, ouch, that's gotta be a slap to your self esteem.
2007-09-09 13:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by Pontius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe guys are intimidated by you... Maybe they're shy, and they're afraid of being rejected if they make advances... Maybe they don't know you are interested... They also might think that a woman as cute as you has a boyfriend already... If you've tried dropping hints, be less subtle... We men have a knack for missing the totally obvious... You might have to resort to asking them out...
Or maybe guys in your area just don't know a good thing when they see it...
2007-09-09 13:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there Mr tunmus Let me tell you that there's another meaning for the word cute which is stupid stated in the oxford dictionary. So pls. do not be carried away by the term of cuteness which also means bunch of beauty. So the reason with the failure of your expectation might be the former. So take more caution and wishing you every success. MGBU.
2007-09-09 13:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by D.R.M.M's Fairplay's Man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are very good-looking most guys probably assume you're taken and are too shy to approach you. And you sound a bit self-absorbed too. See what you can do to generate comments on your personality, sense of caring for others, hard work, etc.
Also most guys don't go to a store to pick up the cashier or stock clerk.
2007-09-09 13:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guy's in their twenties like cute. The problem is if your too cute they think they dont have a chance so they just don't ask. Men lol just find one you like and ask him you will be suprised at how many will say yes because they liked you to just too afraid of rejection. Go for it
2007-09-09 13:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay cute, don't change. If a guy is too blind to realize your looks, it's his loss.
In forty years when the "hotness" of their wives wears out, they'll look back and wish they had a cute, natural girl with good skin and hair!
2007-09-09 13:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by forever1apple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys that might actually have a chance with you say nothing, but everyone else mentions your cuteness.
Yeah, it's a drag.
By the way, you have a very "cute" avatar.
2007-09-09 13:22:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋