I just think about my ex boyfriend so much. And i'm trying to go out on the weekends and meet people, but i always end up just thinking about him. I can't seem to get out of this funk. Any idea to help?
2007-09-09 14:43:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just allow your feelings. I am not sure how long it has been since you broke up. But it will get better in time.
2007-09-09 15:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lefty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you come up with an answer, let me know, I am in the same shite right now. I have gone to a club I used to go to just to try and not think about her. It works for about 4 hours and all is pretty much back the same. If I decide to date again, I am sure it will go away, it may take a while but it will go, it always has.
2007-09-09 21:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by psycho magnet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you think of your ex's so much? if you care that much about him, why don't the two of you solve out your problems and get back together. The only way that you really can get out of this funk of yours. Is simple and clear, that when you're really made up your mind to move on. From what little you said it seem to me that you're not ready to move on to a new relationship. Its you that holding yourself back and not your ex's...got it!
2007-09-09 21:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There were two women in my life I wanted to marry over the years...One is my bride and the other will always be in my heart...When I left her, at that time, it was so hard (Yes, a man saying this), but time will heal you... so will just falling back in love with yourself enough to realize that you are going to get over it and eventually just go completely insane...(J/K). Crying only hurts when you forget to keep drinking water... My idea is live and look ahead. You know now, what you don't need/want in your life. Your great!
2007-09-09 23:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by NY PTK 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I sympathize with the emotional tug of war going on inside of you.Love is like that ---sweet and beautiful and yet painful.You did not give us much to go on such as how long you were together,how long since you broke up, why etc.I am sorry for your current pain but until you can give us more to go on, there isn't much we can do .
2007-09-09 21:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need to go through this. Eventually you will meet somebody else and wonder why you even cared about your ex.
2007-09-09 21:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give it another try it sounds like you still love him
2007-09-09 21:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by dwba812 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
write poems and journal entries about him, then look @ them 6 days later (if you still like him) and see how dumb u sound.
2007-09-09 21:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a nude resort that will make you fell better
2007-09-09 21:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋