Family & Relationships - 12 September 2007

what does the saying "i got your runaway smile in my piggybank baby, im gunna cash it in for a new mercades" mean? i just cant figure it out. im sooo confusedd.

2007-09-12 11:29:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we talk about anything.. just about everything.. so its kinda getting dull.. i know most of you have a significant other, and if not, it would be great if i oculd get some ideas on how to make her laugh, or any over the phone games we could play, so i could amuse her.. or ANYTHING like that.. please and thank you. =] so yeah, just so that our convos are all awkward silences and what not.. thnx in adv.

2007-09-12 11:19:53 · 2 answers · asked by [t].spoon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

One of my friends is having a HUGE slumber party, and I can't go. Why? "Oh, because we don't believe in slumber parties or sleeping at other's houses". ITS SO FRIKKIN A"NNOYING! These days, every party is a slumber party and I haven't been able to ever go to one. NEVER. How do I tell my parents to give me some freedom?! Just a little!

2007-09-12 11:14:11 · 3 answers · asked by Cirque de Soleil (Is bored) 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 20 years old and i am in a serious relationship.things are great between us,we love,respect and take care of each other.so it is normal that we have sex.for my parents it would not be normal,so they do not know anything about it.but yesterday my uncle found out that my cousin who is only 15 years slept with her boyfriend,everyone is furious and dissapointed.i go to universty and i am doing great,they support me financially,i have had cancer 2 yrs ago,so they help me,but i give them back as much as possible,i think they would be dissapointed too if they knew,and i feel gulity,although i do nothing wrong,i am an adult,i cant just go and tell them it would break their heart,but how can i feel better and stop thinking that i am doing against their will.i am so happy in my relationship,why cant they accept the fact that i am grown up.

2007-09-12 11:12:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i cant seem to have any luck with girls, i dont know if its a self esteem problem or just general un-attractiveness, im 19 and 6'4 tall.
im looking for honesty but please don't be overly rude either, i know its the internet and its easy to make fun of people you dont know but please try to be civil

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thanks

2007-09-12 11:10:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently slept with this guy i'm dating,we havent told each other we love each other yet but after sleeping with him for the first time,i feel closer to him,now i cant stop thinking about him,what do you think?

2007-09-12 11:09:49 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did it make you cry tears of happiness? How did it affect your relationship with the person? I wanna know details....i love hearing how other people get loved...so i know that there is a balance to my suffering.

2007-09-12 11:09:19 · 10 answers · asked by WeDontHaveToTakeOurClothesOff 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so there's this total cute guy that i liked and stuff and since like last week he started putting his hands on top of my legs and creeping UP! and he's always suggesting that i give him a blo job, and he steals my stuff and tells me to kiss him and i would get it back


okay so does he like me or what and is he bad news

btw i'm a freshman in highschool (9th grade bbyyy)

2007-09-12 11:05:02 · 13 answers · asked by ??? 3 in Singles & Dating

Seems to me that MOST (if not all) of the virginity until I marry questions are of greater importance to those who think you should wait untl marriage ?!?!?

I believe you guys THINK about it more often than those of us who are no longer virgins !!!!

I understand your religious (or personal) basis for wanting to wait - but to fixate on it - isn't that the same as "doing it"?

I mean - I'm a Christian and I've read the bible. It sates that someone with "lust in their heart" has already committed adultry in the eyes of the lord - right?

So you might be a virgin - but if you're thinking about it, talking about it, wanting to do it, wishing for it, but not doing it - does this REALLY make you more pure than someone that does the actual act?

I think some just like the art of the tease - it makes the buildup THAT much more intense....

I also think that many of these "virgins" build it up so BIG that by the time they actually DO get married and have sex, its a HUGE letdown...

2007-09-12 11:04:26 · 16 answers · asked by aa889d 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy is getting married for the second time but doesn't want to talk about it. Even in his first marriage he didn't tell anyone. Just hoping he will be happy.

2007-09-12 11:03:26 · 17 answers · asked by mindy nanu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If your child asked mommy why does daddy....make you cry at night?

I guess they think I'm crying at night ,when they here us making love. what should i tell them?

2007-09-12 10:58:22 · 25 answers · asked by J* 1 in Singles & Dating

About 8 months ago, I told my husband of 6 yrs. during a pretty bad fight, that i didn't love him and hadn't for a long time. I was trying to hurt him at the time and I knew it would because for a while before hand, he had been questioning my feelings for him. We made up, and a month later, found out i was pregnant with our 2nd child. Recently we've been fighting alot, and his feelings towards me seem to be fading. I was talking with a friend of mine yesterday who reminded me what I said to him, i had forgotten about it because i really didn't mean it, but now i realize how much it must have broke his heart. I feel awful, and want to apologize, but we just had a fight 3 days ago, and aren't speaking, plus i don't know if he'll believe me. he's always been very sensitive about it.

2007-09-12 10:56:46 · 14 answers · asked by aries4279 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are both musicians - cello & piano. At the moment, we are planning to create CDs of the two of us playing duets and solos of different types of music - classical (of course), soundtracks, music for older generations, original compositions that one or both of us wrote, and some new stuff (like our own arrangement of "The Scientist" by Coldplay). What do you think? We wanted to make something more personal and meaningful than a random mix CD with some of our favorite songs.

2007-09-12 10:55:15 · 22 answers · asked by Cerra 2 in Weddings

Ok to make a long story short.. I gave a friend who just had a baby a couple of months ago some baby outfits out of generosity and just because I wanted to. We only talk through email and I got them to her on last friday and it has been almost 6 days later and she still hasn't said a word to me about them or even thanked me. I just feel that is very rude and being very ungrateful. I know if that was me, I would be so happy that they did that for my baby and thank them at least twice to show them I appreciate it. Don't you agree?

2007-09-12 10:53:31 · 9 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Family

i'm just curious of something to do while kissing my boyf.So far when i have my arms around his shoulders/neck,i always stroke the back of his hair which iv heard they love...just wondering what else to do coz i wanna ask a question n this was the first one i thought of...lol random...xxx oh,and none of them pathetic answers that i always seem to get-coz il be angry... >:( lol xxxxx

2007-09-12 10:50:17 · 13 answers · asked by Maria 3 in Singles & Dating

when i have sex with my partner and i am on top
he just stares at me
i starting to think i a rubbish
also this has happened when i had sex with someone else and i was on top
sorry if people dont get this i ve tryed to explain as best as i can

2007-09-12 10:47:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 10:44:26 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents who I see about once a week , do not let a week go by without commenting on my weight, smoking, my house, etc etc.I tell them to stop it, and there reply is always"well its only because we worry about you".
I am a 39 year old mother of two children, own my own home and am happily married.They seem to still feel the need to control me.I dont want a big row with them but I feel this is inevitable, as I feel so angry when they have visited.They are both getting on in years, but seem to still feel the need to tell me and my sister(aged 40) what to do!!They are ridiculous and need to get a life.I have tried the nice route, and at times have got angry with them, what else can I do?Yes I am overweight, I do smoke too much but its my life.How can I get through to them?This is making me unhappy.They have plans now to move to the town I live in, I think all hell will break loose.
help!

2007-09-12 10:44:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dropped by the college to see my husband between his classes. I parked right beside our car and waited. When class let out he didn't come out. I sent him a text to see what he was doing and he said getting his books. I never saw him until after his next class. I asked where he got his books from and he said the car. I was there, never saw him and knew he was lying. So then he told me class let out early and he went for a smoke. If that was the case why didn't he tell me that instead of lying to me about where he was and what he was doing?

2007-09-12 10:43:01 · 19 answers · asked by Froggy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 5 brothers and 5 sis-in-laws. The one is just nerve racking to be around. She has an eating disorder, but REFUSSES to believe the doctors or my brother.She gets every illness in the book, she is so heavilly medicated most of the time she speaks in slow motion. If another member of the family is in poor health, she turns the subject to her and her sorrows. She is so fony it's upsetting.
I feel as long as my brother's happy I shouldn't make anything out of it.
I bite my touge as best I can, but she upsets me so much that I want to scream.
We have the holidays up and coming and she'll make her ussual excusses and we'll see my brother for an hour if were lucky.

Help and advice are welcome.

2007-09-12 10:42:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-12 10:41:00 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

today my wife picked up my phone and i had a message. she told me i had 1, but she never gave me my phone to read it until she was gonna look at it 1st. i really didnt mind, it was cool. later i was on myspace and my son mother sent me a message and i responded back 2 it and then my wife walked in the room and read what she e-mailed me and asked what did she mean by i didnt get what i sent her. i told her what she was talking about. later her phone went off and she was typing a message and it said "did u still feel like it 2morrow" and i was right there when she was typing it and i ask what did that mean and she said he know what it means, and she wouldnt tell me the meaning of what that meant or what he said 2 make her say that back. should i feel like she hiding something even though she wrote while i was right there looking at her write it. should i be upset that she asked me something and i answered but she didnt when i asked. let me know ur opinion.

2007-09-12 10:36:09 · 10 answers · asked by J J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 10:35:11 · 18 answers · asked by lhammond429@btinternet.com 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm shy and I have not had the best luck finding Mr. Right. I mean I do talk but, I like others to start up the conversation first.
But, I'm starting to think that guys do not like shy girls in general? If that is the case, is it because they get intimidated by them?

2007-09-12 10:33:47 · 34 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, does anyone how to win an EX gf back? sad to say she was the one that broke it up. Anyway, any tips would be good, thanks!!

2007-09-12 10:30:47 · 3 answers · asked by White Shooting Star of HK 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 10:30:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband works everyday 12 hours. Is this good for a marrige?

2007-09-12 10:30:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and i were at his house and he said he wanted me to sleep over since his parents were out of town so i did and we were kissing on the bed and he started to undress me so i'm totally naked so i start undressing him and instead of underwear he has on a freakin depend!!! i was like wtf is that?
he was all embarassed and his face was beat red. i left and he called me and hung up what do i do.??? i think its so discusting that he weard depends.

p.s. we are both 16

2007-09-12 10:30:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I called my hubby at work and informed him I was spotting and didn't know if I needed to go to the hospital.Instead of him comming home he went to the gym to work out.The day I recieved my heartbreaking news,the hubby stayed home.Well aware that I was scared to death and that I needed someone to be with me.We have other problems in our marriage besides this one. I am so ready to walk away from it all.

2007-09-12 10:29:52 · 16 answers · asked by Shell E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well for starters its my dad. I was raised by my mom with my dad every so often or visiting or me visiting him. I never minded that I didn't live with my dad or see him that often. Don't ask me why, I just didn't. Anyway now he calls me like every week( maybe b/c I'm older I don't know) which is cool, but when we're about to hang up he aways has to say I love you and expects for me to say it back. Even just now he was like I love you and I said yea. He was like I said I Love You and so I just said it back. I don't even say I love you to my mom that often. I like him but that those words just aren't in my everday vocabulary. What should I do?

2007-09-12 10:28:38 · 23 answers · asked by MovieMadness 1 in Family