when i have sex with my partner and i am on top
he just stares at me
i starting to think i a rubbish
also this has happened when i had sex with someone else and i was on top
sorry if people dont get this i ve tryed to explain as best as i can
2007-09-12 10:47:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it all started when we broke up for a month he said sex with someone and he said she was crap
i feel a bit crap now
2007-09-12 10:58:10 · update #1
make him play with your boobs or kiss him or something.
2007-09-12 10:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
with the sketchy details obviously not going into too much detail its difficult to get a picture of exactly wot you mean, so here`s a answer, personally i usually go on top, but in the occasions where a partner was on top i found myself not wanting to move i cant recall ever just staring but i can say i didnt move much, can`t understand y u think your rubbish it could just be that he`s relaxed unless he`s got a psycho stare then `RUN AWAY!!!!` just joking , sorry if this doesnt really answer your question, if not think about other positions or better still ask him .
2007-09-12 17:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by fezzy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wonder if you are a bit self conscious when in this position and that is why you are more aware that your partner is looking at you. Look at it this way he wouldn't be with you if it wasn't enjoyable, try different positions. But only do what you are comfortable to do. Most importantly talk to the guy ask him what he likes and tell him what you like. Make love making fun.
2007-09-12 21:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by mhmill193 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I ignored your question the first time because I really couldn't follow what you were trying to say, I think I've got it now. The best advice I can give is to talk to your partner...Find out from him if he thinks your doing "good work" , this works both ways of course, tell him what you like..
2007-09-12 17:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by Thornsey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ye I agree when you are on top just don't rock back and forth ...sweety you up and down swirl it all around, watch his face and body movement usually when he's feeling aroused, he'll make a noise, touch your breasts squizz your butt for more stimulation and then release
2007-09-16 11:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by pisces red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree, some guys like to watch the womens pleasure, thier very visual
2007-09-12 17:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should work it a lil more & see if that changes his expressions...flip over & have him hit it from the back...i wouldnt think that your rubbish or what your doing isnt up to par
2007-09-12 17:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by intimadatein 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i know guys only.... BUT
he is probably staring at you because men get off mostly on what they see, it turns them on, he thinks your totally hott! so keep up the good work!
2007-09-12 17:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
if youre on top dont just rock back and forth on it. make sure your going up and down on it. this works.
2007-09-12 17:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
put a pillow over his head , then you wont be able to see him x
2007-09-12 18:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by El Diablo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you didnt do a very good job of explaining... thus i don't think you will get the answers you were looking for.. try rephrasing your question again
2007-09-12 17:52:43 · answer #11 · answered by Lupita 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋