My bf and i were at his house and he said he wanted me to sleep over since his parents were out of town so i did and we were kissing on the bed and he started to undress me so i'm totally naked so i start undressing him and instead of underwear he has on a freakin depend!!! i was like wtf is that?
he was all embarassed and his face was beat red. i left and he called me and hung up what do i do.??? i think its so discusting that he weard depends.
p.s. we are both 16
2007-09-12 10:30:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There may be some medical problem that requires him to do that. You should have let him explain rather then running off. He obviously felt comfortable enough with you to let you find out otherwise he would not have asked you to stay the night. Granted he should have told you before it got to that point.
2007-09-12 10:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It may be a health problem of some kind or maybe he is incontinent only when he sleeps and totally forgot he had them on, but I can't believe you reacted the way you did. If I were you, I would apologize for it.
If you were 16, had to wear depends, and were making out with a guy, how would you feel if he accidently found out then ran away?
Even if you can't get past this, a bit of human compassion would be nice.
2007-09-12 10:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mystic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course he was embarrassed. Especially with the way you reacted to him. If you think it is so disgusting then you are not a very good girlfriend. I suppose you are the type of person that goes around telling all your friends about it, too?
Did you ever stop to think that maybe he has a medical problem? Some young boys (no offense guys) do have a problem with leakage, be it sperm or urine. They do eventually grow out of it.
If you had any true feelings for this young man, you would have been a little more considerate and understanding.
2007-09-12 10:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by Diana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wrong-Depends are for anyone who can t hold it. No one wears one on purpose. Why is that any different than wearing glasses, etc. Its a medical device as a solution to a problem. Grow up everybody !
2016-02-14 11:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by Josh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow did you ever consider that it maybe a health problem. but i seriously doubt that you should hit the floor running from this depend wearing boy or you can ask him why he wears it
ps why was he undressing you in the first place????
2007-09-12 10:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
He probably has a medical problem. You should be more empathetic instead of running away from him and acting like he's a disease. What would you want if the tables had been turned???
2007-09-12 10:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl I agree he should have told you.Maybe he has a bladder problem.Meaning he has a small bladder and he can't hold it. So he wears it for protection. Its like girls wearing stinky pads.
2007-09-12 10:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahaha WoW he should have atleast went to the bathroom and change before you found out Your bf wears diapers!!
2007-09-12 10:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not his fault that he has a problem and has to wear them. I dont think you should have acted the way you did. You are his girlfriend and you need to support whatever problem he has.
2007-09-12 10:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by K. 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
depends are for senior citizens who cant hold it ( no offense) maybe he has a bladder problem
2007-09-12 10:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋