2007-09-12 10:35:11 · 18 answers · asked by lhammond429@btinternet.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah go for it
2007-09-12 10:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question I would ask is how old are you? And the other thing is how long have you been seeing each other? Otherwise, my advice would be not to ask her. Living together is a big commitment and the best way is to take your time, date each other and then when the time is right, ask her to marry you!
2007-09-12 17:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend lives with me. I Love it! There are a ton of advantages, and it's a lot of fun. Plus, she is an awesome cook. This helps when I come home exhausted from Boxing at the gym.
Don't do it unless you absolutely trust her though. I was sure I did, so I went ahead with it.
2007-09-12 17:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by Master C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving from a dating relationship to a live-in relationship changes it from a getting-to-know-each-other relationship to a trust-bound, I know and trust you with my space, my possessions, my time, my physical, mental, emotional, and Spiritual well-being kind of relationship. If you share that level of trust with your girlfriend, then you can choose to ask her take it to the next level. Otherwise, wait until the trust is there.
2007-09-12 17:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to commit to her, or is this just a way to get the house clean, and sex when needed? If it doesn't work out are you willing to help her get set up in her own place, if she is giving up hers now? If she becomes pregnant, then what? So many questions that need to answered before you ask.
2007-09-12 17:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you mature enough yet ?
Is she mature enough yet ?
Are you both legally old enough yet ?
Do you want her to ?
Does she want to ?
Are there any complications with cohabiting in your lease / tenancy agreements ?
If you own your own house are you ready for the financial commitment ?
Would your wife get upset ?
Would her husband object ?
Have you ever seen her without her make up on at 4am ?
A little more specific might help...
2007-09-12 17:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Vogon Poet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with her?How serious are you with her? it's a big commitment and there will be a lot of changes in both of your lives. If you are ready for the next step good luck..the plus side it's fun too..
2007-09-12 17:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by Stanley the Westie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if you're ready, how long have yall been together? Ive been with my man for over 4 years but we're still taking our time to get things together. Not saying it will happen but moving in together too soon could result in breakup.
2007-09-12 17:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to marry her I say no. Statistics prove that cohabitation before marriage results in a higher divorce rate. So the odds of you staying married if you cohabitate are against you.
2007-09-12 17:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In for a penny, in for a pound! Go for it mate,try it you might like it.Good look geezer.
2007-09-12 17:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by Baz G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you honestly think it will work, why not?? she'll only say yes or no! if u can see u guys living together then youve got nothing to lose.
2007-09-12 17:40:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋