Am i ugly?

Question

i cant seem to have any luck with girls, i dont know if its a self esteem problem or just general un-attractiveness, im 19 and 6'4 tall.
im looking for honesty but please don't be overly rude either, i know its the internet and its easy to make fun of people you dont know but please try to be civil

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thanks

Answer 1

Im not female but I dont think your ugly, dude.

Answer 2

Before I even saw the picture the first thing that came to my mind was "everything is beautiful in it's own way". I didn't know what to expect. The first link was a little shocking....as it was coming up I thought what is this a joke and then I thought I think that is a blanket and I clicked on the other lilnk and saw a very handsome young man.

People liking you really has less to do with how you look than how you smile, give eye contact, give off good vibes, whether you are clean and have no offense odor and the way you speak in a pleasant manner.

So start smiling, bath often, give eye contact, be the best that you can be. Be able to speak about many subjects with intelligence and be respectful to everyone you meet. Best wishes!

Answer 3

From what I can tell, you look as good as any of the guys I see walking around my neighborhood with some damned fine girls on their arms. I don't know you, but I would guess that low self-esteem has more to do with it than anything else. As a short guy, it'd be easy for me to say with no small amount of envy that your height gives you a significant advantage in the dating scene, and it does. Without a real, honest confidence, though, you won't be able to make the most of your physical attributes.

Maybe you could focus on building that confidence by approaching girls and working on having decent conversations with them. Give them honest, non-sleazy compliments, or ask them about their lives. You don't need to concentrate on getting phone numbers, at least not until you've built up your confidence to the point where rejection isn't the end of the world. You sound like a nice guy, so don't give up. Good luck.

Greg

Answer 4

No, you are not ugly. And I am being honest.
More than likely it is a self-esteem problem. Do you act desperate? Do you try to rush into things or come on too strong initially? Focus on YOU first and find out what makes you feel good about yourself and makes you happy, i.e., volunteer work, exercising, hobbies and other interests. This confidence will show through when you socialize, and you'll have MUCH better luck with the ladies.
And then, if a girl still isn't interested then find another one to talk to. You'll hit the jackpot eventually.
Hang in there :-)

Answer 5

yo man don't worry about it.. it's a confidence thing..
try something new.... get ya swag up (find some style)
make yourself interesting... pimpin aint easy pimpin
start hittin the barber shop n switch up ya cut, get new gear(clothes) n nice clean sneaks, hit the gym n get in good shape. run sprints and that will rip your abs up... being in good shape will make you feel alot better.... its not how you look but how you feel pimpin... n stop chasing those shallow chicks, cuz at the end of the day? all they have to offer is a good skeet... find your confidence then find yourself a nice girl with a nice head on her shoulders and help her feel just confident as you made yourself.. looks aint everything everyone can look a lil better if they try...
but if thats you want?? be ready for tha drama, shallow sh**,etc. n you better have some abortion money, or child support.. trust me.. atractiveness is a gift and a curse... just keep your mind in a good place... i know.....really....

Answer 6

NO, you are NOT ugly - can I offer a few suggestions??? Try wearing more COLOR, maybe add a few dark colored shirts, and have you considered maybe adding a bit of dark red highlights to the top of your hair?? Kind of like Criss Angel but not as drastic - girls really dig that style - and I agree with many of the girls here - your HEIGHT will benefit you, believe me. I love really tall guys. Be PATIENT - when you STOP looking, they will come to you.

Answer 7

No, you are not ugly. You look young, though. You have a boyish face.

Your height will work for you in a couple of years. Most women love tall men. Just give your face time to mature, and the ladies will come in time.

Answer 8

You don't look ugly. You're not Jude Law or anything, but there are plenty of girls who'd be interested... if you have a personality to match. Try being more assertive, but not a jerk, and be considerate of the feelings of others.

Answer 9

It has nothing to do with your looks, your looks are nice and even if you looked worse, you would still have plenty of chances with women. Try to gain some confidence, and also you do have to go up to women and talk to them, and be talkative in general. Shyness isn't much of a turn on, so put yourself out there!

Answer 10

Your not ugly you just need to apply your self more. "Think pretty, be pretty.." IT sounds like mumbo jumbo but it works.
Put a swagger in your walk and don't try hard to be cool just be you. Girls don't realize this until they have been forked over by like 30 dudes who just used them for a piece of azs. That guys like you, who are sweet, shy, and helpless. Usually won't use them for a piece of azs and, we buy better gifts. Stupid girls... hold in there man you'll find one or maybe she will find you, just don't blow it.

Sonojudan

"Yeah I think you have me confused with someone else. I would never do something like make out with your sister."

Answer 11

Aw no! You're cute! I'd say you have that 'baby face' look but thats nothing to be ashamed about! That may hold you back because I would have said you were younger than 19.
Don't worry buddy!