Family & Relationships - 12 September 2007

Okay my best mate has been my friend for ages n last year i used to hang out wit her and her other mates too, but then ova da summer i said something stupid, i said omg im so fat in front of someone whhos bigga dan me... then i fell out wit her and her mates nd they were leaving nasty messages on my account. Then i made up wid ma best mate but then did summit else stoopid, i told anotha mate wat anotha mate said about her behind her back... the otha girl said i woz lying so they accused me of trying to spilt em up now every one hates me except one person (ma best mate) but that isnt my consolation coz she hangs out wid the othas. Im so lonely and i miss all my mates... and people keep saying things that reallii hurts ma feeling... ='[ ty xxx

2007-09-12 22:24:04 · 3 answers · asked by hunnii b 2 in Friends

People say that women are clingy, needy and emotional, but in my experience guys are like that. It seems like most guys are just looking for someone to be their mother. The guys that I've dated recently wouldn't give me any space, they were constantly breathing down my neck, calling me and asking me questions like "What are you thinking about?" One guy I was dating got SO upset when I forgot his birthday. I admit, that was pretty horrible of me but I didn't understand why he got so upset. We weren't dating for a long time (less than 2 months) and I honestly wouldn't care if he forgot my b-day. It wasn't like we were dating for 2 years

I think I am just too independent, stubborn and set in my ways? Or are guys just too clingy? Recently I've been called an "ice queen". I don't think I'm cold, I just don't go crazy over someone in a matter of weeks. I can be nurturing and loving, but it takes a while for me to be like that. I don't pretend to adore someone when I really could care less.

2007-09-12 22:23:46 · 7 answers · asked by A.H. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 22:18:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 22:13:50 · 11 answers · asked by manar 1 in Singles & Dating

Or if you said yes, do you go ahead with a marriage?

2007-09-12 22:12:48 · 26 answers · asked by Marine Girl 1 in Weddings

2007-09-12 22:11:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's a girl I've been talking to a lot at work lately. For several weeks, we've been having lunch together nearly every day, and she and I spend hours every day just talking (when we really should be working :)). I know that I like her a huge amount, and I've told her several times (in passing) that I think she's beautiful and I'm really comfortable with her and enjoy the time we spend together. Despite the subtle compliments, I'm not sure if she realizes that I like her in a romantic way yet. She often talks about how unhappy she is with her husband and about her home situation. She had a pretty crappy wedding, and her husband isn't very romantic or attentive. She seems to talk about affairs a lot (but indirectly, e.g. as stories about friends etc.). She has mentioned that she thinks about having an affair or leaving her husband sometimes. She has no children, which would make me feel somewhat less guilty about things... Should I tell her that I like her?

2007-09-12 22:08:49 · 20 answers · asked by Retro Fluff 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has always got hot over seeing threesomes on TV and in films and has suggested to me for us to have one. I actually find it quite a turn on and have kissed my female friends many times before but never done anything else. How do we go about this? What are the "rules" of threesomes if there are any? How do you start it all off when all three of us are sat there on the bed!?!? We have a friend who has hinted that she would be up for it.

2007-09-12 22:06:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone once told if you a have Disability at you 50% more
to go out with someone who got a disability then someone who haven't. do you think this could be true

2007-09-12 21:59:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think i am ready... i am 21, things have not gone so well so far and i am ready to be done, not saying that i am going to do it like that but if it were to happen i would not care, i am ready to go... is it wrong to be ready to die?

2007-09-12 21:56:23 · 6 answers · asked by Jesse N 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know he has emotional problems, anxiety, obsessive/compulsive and bipolar but he constantly tells me how much he loves me and how cute he thinks I am. However I can't seem to do anything to get him excited enough to actually make love and it bothers me a great deal. He admits his father is Gay and says that is not for him, that lifestyle. Yet I see he likes to dress in feminie clothes. He takes hormone supplements (Andregel) that should help with his low testosterone levels, however he has made no moves on me in over 3 months! And when I try to give him a hand job, he won't get hard??? I'm so confused and frustrated. I've been told I'm a very sexy lady so it must be him. What do I do??? I notice from reading his IM's with other women he meets in chat rooms that he tries to have online sex. What's this all about? When I am right there and ready for him?

2007-09-12 21:49:32 · 18 answers · asked by beautyofthesea 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband said and did something that hurt my feelings tremendously! I told him that I was very hurt by his response and what he did. He hasn't apologized and all he could do at the time was tell me that I am taking it all personally and to basically get over it. All that did was add more fuel to the fire so to speak. I am still hurting and he is acting as if nothing has happened. What have you done? Any suggestions?

2007-09-12 21:45:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 21:44:49 · 28 answers · asked by freak 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay so, me and my friend how is a guy were playing 'punch, pash and partner' he said he would pash me punch someone else and partner someone else.
Now to you what is the most indicator that someone likes you: Partner or Pash?

2007-09-12 21:40:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a little worried about my ex (we're still friends). I recently found out that the woman he married chose to hyphenate her name with his and I heard that women who do this are, well, to put it mildly bit**es. What do you think?

2007-09-12 21:39:24 · 9 answers · asked by Si S 2 in Singles & Dating

and i,ve been single for most of that time but recently had a sexual relationship with his friend who treated me like ****,it caused a bit of a rift between me and my friend but as always he has stood by me,thing is i do love him but can't imagine having sex with him,sometimes i think shall i just do it and see how i feel and/or risk our frienship even more,i think it's because he's a kind man that im not 'clicking' with him i stay single because i tend to go for men that treat me bad.i was in care as a childmum didnt want me/like me and i didnt see my dad for 17 years and he doesnt bother with me i think thats got something to do with it.he hasnt met anyone either in last 6 years but is round my house 3-4 evenings to watch telly eat drink t etc,what is going on? i live a mad live!what do i do?

2007-09-12 21:34:16 · 7 answers · asked by talks good s hit 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 21:24:03 · 8 answers · asked by wiiiiam_lee 1 in Singles & Dating

My son has slept with me and my wife, (his stepmom) in our bed regularly (most of the time) until recently. She did not complain initally and he slept with us from 2 yrs. old until 7 1/2. My wife could not take it anymore and I gradually discontinued to let him sleep with us. He has slept with us a few times recently. Once in a while ( every 7-10 days), I go to his room and cuddle up with him in his bed, on nights when me and my wife are not having sex , or sometimes when we have an arguement . I still enjoy holding him and we both enjoy the serenity of being together. She wants it to stop entirely (afternoon naps still o.k.with her) She says it is not good for for my son to be sleeping with us or me alone anymore. I think I should still be allowed to sleep with him sometimes in his room. Who is right?

Note: My wife has 2 kids from a prev. marriage (now 12 and 16 yrs. old) who live far away and she has seen only twice in the last 6 years, but calls them regularly.

2007-09-12 21:23:40 · 22 answers · asked by mounthukeeguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 21:19:33 · 5 answers · asked by karenmadson2000 1 in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with this really sweet girl. Everyday I find myself missing her more. She's really far away from me, like across the country far away from me. She's only 2 years younger than me, but shes very mature. Grew up quickly. Anyway..how can I minimize these feelings? I wanna be with her so bad =\

2007-09-12 21:16:17 · 9 answers · asked by m1i9k8e8 2 in Singles & Dating

Some guys denies their status just to convince other gals for them to fool.

2007-09-12 21:15:30 · 12 answers · asked by sweet sandz 1 in Weddings

2007-09-12 21:07:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been a good guy all my life. Always shown respect to women. Always tried to be sensitive to their needs, and respect them as people and partners. And I've got nothing but crap for it. Women don't respect me. I always lose them to the @ssholes anyway. So, I'm a bad guy from now on. I'm going to sleep with as many women as I can, and use them any way I want.

2007-09-12 20:53:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I sent my cousin (she's 41) a few photos of us ages ago, and not once did she even have the decency to reply. Each time she sends/emails me photos of her, I eagerly thank and welcome them. Now my mum wants to send her a handmade card with photos of her when she was a child. I said to her,"But she hasn't even answered our photos yet from a year ago". Do you think my mum is being too nice, because I certainly wouldn't send her a card like that when she rarely appreciates/acknowledges my communication with her.

2007-09-12 20:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by Hello 2 in Family

My boyfriend is a very sweet guy, this is what attracted me to him, but on occassion i notice that he lets his daughter get away with murder. I dont know if this is out of guilt or what by i know that him allowing his daughter to manipulate him and our realtionship is driving me nuts. The girl is only eight, but very smart. Our relationship has drifted somewhat because of her and i have asked him why he allows this and sarcastically he aswered, "because i am spineless and a whimp", i just nodded my head in disbelief. What makes this situation so bad is that he is caring, loving, and wants to make sure that u are happy, but deep down something is not right. His daughters mother left her with him to raise and he has sole custody. I know his daughter does not want me around. My boyfriend knows how i feel about her and i know that he feels torn and does not want me to leave, but what do i do?

2007-09-12 20:44:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 20:19:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 20:17:25 · 9 answers · asked by pc 2 in Singles & Dating

My hubby works away from home a few times / yr. The last absence, he had an emotional affair with a co-worker. He admitted he'd gotten too close with her, and promised me that he'd never talk to her again. Well, he's had contact with her 3 times within the past 2 weeks. He claims that it's work related, but, I don't know if I should believe him. (He's a nuclear worker , and I know friends call friends to let them know about available jobs, but, the emotional affair throws a curve into this "friendship').I've tried asking him to break all contact and keep his promise, but he says I'm over reacting. He knows his contact with her bothers me deeply, and it's the only thing I argue with him about. All of his friends think I'm over reacting, too. Am I????

2007-09-12 20:12:40 · 24 answers · asked by addell712 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What were your first impressions of your significant other?

2007-09-12 20:07:34 · 3 answers · asked by applebeer 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend whom I have a crush on was sending me home and in the car while driving, he smacked my thigh cos I said something funny but rude. I pretended like it never happened and continued talking about something else because I didn't want him to know I like him by keeping quiet after I was touched...

I don't want him to smack my thigh, I was hoping he would touch my shoulder to usher me into a cinema or some place - you know, THAT kind of touch. Is he toying with my emotions? Because I really like him but I don't think he likes me that way... What can I do about this guy?

2007-09-12 20:04:27 · 20 answers · asked by LindK 2 in Singles & Dating