If you have been seeing this man for more than 2 weeks and you have any doubts at all - run girl run. Why are you suspicious? Does he ask you to meet him somewhere or take you home early every time? Has he given you his home phone number and address? Have you been to his house? Does he always take you out of town? And this is the big one - does he give his time freely or does he just want to "get down to business?
Try and answer these questions to yourself. If you are honest with your answers you will pretty much know. After all this - ask him. No skirting around don't try to think of a "good" way to ask him so he won't think you are "clingy". and girl don't take any glib "oh baby you know you're the only woman in my life. Now let's not bring this up anymore. If he is single he will just say no. He may ask what brought it on and then just tell him the truth -- I have been fooled before and I don't want to let that happen again.
I hope this has been some help. I truly hope he is single if you are seriously involved with him. So I wish you the best.
God bless
fishergirl
2007-09-12 21:57:39
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answered by fishergirl 3
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This is the kind of question people ask that have been used before. A relationship is as good as the foundation it's built on. What makes you sceptical? Maybe you need to look at yourself first, and find out who you are. You can always go to the Hall of Records in your county and check locally. Other than that, you need an investigator. Is it worth the cost?
My daugther married a man and didn't check thoroughly and when she did, found out he was a bigamist. It's sad that people have no moral conscience these days. Protect yourself. Good Luck
2007-09-12 21:53:08
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answered by Anonymous
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lady, you're a actual little bit of paintings. you have 2 boyfriends: one married and one single. you're 2 timing the two. you're able to unfastened the married guy. while you at the instant are not pleased with the only one, wreck it off with him and seem for somebody else which will make you happy. you're able to awaken and grow to be to blame to your existence. attempt to not leave a wake of turmoil. God bless.
2016-10-10 11:58:11
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answered by ? 4
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I "google" everyone I know (friends, teachers, my boss, etc...) just to see what pops up. But I have bought backgroud checks on boyfriends in the past. and let me say it was totally worth it. for like $20 you can buy online a backgroud check on anyone. they tell you about previous addresses, who their relatives are, any tickets or court appearance in the past, MARRIAGE licenses, bankruptcies, etc...
Go for it, it could confirm what he's already told you, or it clue you in that you might be wasting your time.
2007-09-13 02:47:56
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answered by sprikles_777 2
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some gals also does that for your info. dont jsut blame boys alone. more than boys gals want to see and enjoy more.
any way this is not the part of your question. just ask him also find with his friends or go to his house directly.
2007-09-12 21:24:08
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answered by samee 2
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Well, if he is denying being married, then you need to dump his bum and pronto.
If he never invites you over, is skittish with his schedule, is never available to talk on the phone or always has 'something to do' and he can't meet you... MARRIED. And cheating.
NOT good.
2007-09-13 01:48:18
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answered by Mimi 7
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Well.. you can either...
hire an investigator,
find and check out this place of stay,
police screen his details,
Muslim? Swear in GOD's name sworn or with the Holy Qu'ran.
2007-09-12 21:31:33
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answered by february.stars 2
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If you have to wonder than he isn't the right one for you.
Starting a relationship without trust to begin with is a bad sign.
2007-09-12 21:22:41
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answered by Rena 2
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You Can Check Age , and some many thigs are there tomark with his personality.
2007-09-12 22:03:35
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answered by Pramod Patel 1
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ask him and if your in doubt of what he says to you then you have trust issues, if you just let him know that all you wanna know is the truth and all you wanna do is feel trust from him and fake promis not to get mad, maybe he'll hell you
2007-09-12 21:21:34
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answered by Anonymous
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