I fell in love with this really sweet girl. Everyday I find myself missing her more. She's really far away from me, like across the country far away from me. She's only 2 years younger than me, but shes very mature. Grew up quickly. Anyway..how can I minimize these feelings? I wanna be with her so bad =\
2007-09-12 21:16:17 · 9 answers · asked by m1i9k8e8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? A two-year age difference can mean everything, or nothing, depending on your actual age.
Have you ever actually met this person? If not, how do you know that you love her?
It is my opinion that long-distance relationships are a subsitute for the real thing. People have long-distance and computer relationships if they cannot get the real thing in their own communities. Sometimes it is legitimate--guys in work camps in the bush, or military guys deployed to God-forsaken places, and that kind of thing.
Having a long distance or computer relationship distracts you from the real key to happiness--a real person in your real life.
Sorry to burst your bubble. Maybe you could love this person--but you have to be physically around her to know that.
Another thing. The only information you have about her is what she chooses to tell you. Or not. It may be the truth. Or not.
Save yourself some heartbreak at the worst, and tire-spinning at the least, and get a real-life girlfriend in your own community.
2007-09-12 21:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Pagan Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Long disrance relationsips are had to have believe me I have had one a long time ago and now I am back with that person. But if you like her a lot I think that you should tell her but in a settle way. Do you flirt a lot with each other? Cause if you do you could make a joke about it. Just tell her the truth and be honest with her cause girls love that.
2016-04-04 18:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOH... so romantic of you... Communication is a very important tool for your relationship.. We are very advanced in our technology nowadays.. We have the internet, we use webcam, and our headsets. And if special ocassions, if you are available, visit her in her country. Or proposed marriage for her now, so that you two will become one...
2007-09-12 21:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by sweet sandz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationship is really a challenge.
get in touch through the internet might reduce the
physical gap though
2007-09-12 21:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things can happen like this but you have to be honest to your long distance girlfriend.They say it is only up to you "self regulation".
2007-09-12 21:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by sheila l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is that far away from her your not in love. it must be something else. her face her body or the way she talks.... that you cant get out of your mind. try going out it might help.... talkin to new people.
2007-09-12 21:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by mary k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure that what you are feeling is not an infatuation ---- talk to her get to know her better --- at some point you will need to move closer ---- best wishes
2007-09-12 21:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convey ur love for her boldly through contact mail or phone
2007-09-12 21:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to where she is?!
Or, tell her to move in with you?!
I wish you the best of luck.
2007-09-12 21:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by Hmmmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋